I agree with everything you said specially this part ! Hermes makes me happy and is something I do for myself . In a world of responsibilities and having people depend on me , hermes shopping becomes my escape ( I keep it healthy and harmless.. but not to my wallet) ..
To go even further down the rabbit hole, I find Hermès - and TPF - a healthy outlet and distraction from what could be a more negative cycle of mind. I mean - in the most euphemistic way - I would rather, say, obsess over the bags Hermès makes in the Mauve Sylvestre/RGHW combo than spend my afternoon having an existential crisis. It certainly doesnt keep me from doing the things I need to do, but it‘s definitely a more positive (and much more fun!) focus and outlet.
And YES!!!! With the day to day tasks, kids and the word being what it is .. obsessing over an ombre lizard mini k I saw on IG and trying to find ways to acquire it is really an outlet .
Nobody actually understand this ( except for TPFers) they think I am wasting my time and there is no such thing as hermes for a hobby
