I read all your comments and I’m not sure what route to go. I want a 2.5 carat and lab is ideal due to price but if I want natural my bf can only get me 2 carats which is not bad bc my finger is size 4.25.
has anyone purchase from Vrai?
Regarding Vrai, I don’t believe their diamonds are graded by an independent, third-party lab. They only come with GIA gemologist certified, which is not an actual lab report and is biased since it is their in-house gemologists (who completed a simple GIA course) providing their opinions.
Regardless of which route you take, I strongly encourage you to go with a diamond that is graded by a reputable, independent, third-party lab. Think GIA and AGS for mined, GIA and GCAL for lab grown. IGI is a very popular lab for grading lab grown diamonds, but they have somewhat of a reputation for being softer on grading, so you may want to go up a grade or two in color and clarity if you get a diamond with an IGI report because it would likely grade lower had it been sent to other, more reputable labs. Diamonds graded these labs will be accompanied by actual reports as to their characteristics, vs. a gemologist certificate, appraisal, or other documentation, which only provides a general opinion as to their characteristics (as noted above, usually biased since the people providing these opinions work for the retailers selling the diamonds).
Go to the pricescope website for loads of info on the importance of lab grading reports, how to select a diamond, and a lot more. The folks on the rocky talk forum can help with mined diamonds and I believe there is a separate forum for lab growns. FWIW, I personally would go for the mined diamond. Best of luck to you!