The ends of my hair always get soooo dry no matter what conditioner I use. I condition and deep condition my hair every other day or every 2 days but they never seem to get any better. How do you keep the ends of your hair looking as good as the rest of it? Any at home remedy secrets? Also, how often do you get your hair trimmed? I am trying to grow mine out so I don't want to just keep chopping it off every time they get dry