Like you, I had found all the scents cloyingly sweet - until, eau de manufacturer. They sent me a sample of it as a gift when it was released, I almost threw it out, but it was delivered to my office and one day I forgot to wear fragrance and decided to give it a go, I immediately loved it.
Smoke and leather that is the best way I can describe it, maybe with notes of pepper - I am no Nose; I just tend to like either earthy or smoky.
My faves: Initio: Oud for Greatness and Oud for Happiness, By Killian: Intoxicated and Sacred Wood, and Diptyque: Tam Dao
I have a smattering of Tom Ford scents but if they sit too long then start to smell sweet to me, and then I have a few outlier fragrances - but the aboves are my go-to's so if you like any of those or like smoke and leather that is not overtly masculine you probably would love this.