Perhaps you guys can help me out here. I inherited a diamond cocktail ring. Don't know the value except that over 30 years ago it was purchased at an auction for about $4K at considerably less than it was worth. I really want to wear it--it has great family memories of the endearing eccentric who bought it and the lovable eccentric who wore it. But where should I wear it?
I've always been a teeny-tiny diamond person. Prefer jewelry I can wear 24/7 doing the things I like to do like gardening, dog wrestling, subway-riding, and napping in the sun. I like jewelry I don't get too bummed about if I wreck. Low-end Macy's stuff.
But WHERE do I wear this? To city council meetings with other roiling neighborhood activists? To League of Women Voter meetings? WHERE? I mean really I would wear it everyday, but it seems too grand for that. It's a ring that says "What happens in Vegas stays in Vegas." How is this going to fit into my lifestyle?
And where should I keep it? I hear that bank safe deposit boxes get broken into regularly. I have a household safe, but is it safe there?? But if I secure it in either place I might not ever wear it, and I am looking forward to wearing it. In fact...

...I would probably wear it everyday, saying to the world 'Yes I am one of those aging women who wear their flashy cocktail rings to the grocery store because they have no place else to go, but I don't really care.'
Should I insure it? Should I get it appraised? I'm more concerned about losing the memories attached to the ring than the value of the ring. I know I sound stupid, but can you guys offer some advise? What would you do with a ring like this?
P.S. Doreen, I am obsessed with the poet in your avatar and I want to read everything she ever wrote, but I don't want to learn Italian first.