thanks you guys, it's neat to be able to gush a little w/ someone!
The prongs are too high IMO, but will wait until the excitement dies down a little and maybe have them changed when DH goes out of town. . . he wouldn't notice I don't think.
The plain band is exactly what I asked for, I want to collect very thin/delicate anniversary/eternity bands to stack w/ it.
That way when we travel I can wear just a couple of bands and not the solitaire or I can stack them and change them up and wear them with it.