thanks ouija board- that's just what i wanted to hear. your birkin sounds fantastic.Annie, my Fjord 30cm Birkin is over 10 yrs old, and while it's definitely not smooshy and slouchy, it has definitely relaxed a bit, especially on the sides. I'm not sure how that translates to a Bolide since the construction may be a little different. I imagine that a Fjord Bolide would soften a bit over time, but I doubt if it would become as slouchy as Clemence unless you sat on it a few times. And even then, maybe not!