To find an attorney - go to the courthouse in your county. (ie: I live in bergen county, NJ - I go to the courthouse in Hackensack, the county's courthouse). Ask lots of questions. Hit child support area and ask around. check legal aid(even though you may not need it), check domestic violence (even though you don't need it) someone can point you in the direction for an attorney.
Here is a tip: If you consult with a top divorce attorney, even if you don't hire him, your husband cannot hire him. Once you speak to an attorney; that attorney cannot be retained by your husband. conflict of interest because you spoke to him first. This is a tatic the very wealthy use to cut one spouse out of a top notch lawyer.
Second: Breath deep. and relax. you're just protecting yourself. speak to your medical doctor if you have too. He has to keep conversations private.
Good luck.
Here is a tip: If you consult with a top divorce attorney, even if you don't hire him, your husband cannot hire him. Once you speak to an attorney; that attorney cannot be retained by your husband. conflict of interest because you spoke to him first. This is a tatic the very wealthy use to cut one spouse out of a top notch lawyer.
Second: Breath deep. and relax. you're just protecting yourself. speak to your medical doctor if you have too. He has to keep conversations private.
Good luck.