this is always a matter of personal preference but i don't think the pendant has to come up to ring specs. i think the h or i will be more than enough if they are pleasing to the eye. people may grab your hand and take a close look at the ring ( i don't recommend this type of behavior but i have seen it) but most would not put their eyes up to your neck.
your eyes will tell you what you need to know as far as color and clarity for a pendant or earrings. jmho. i am so anxious to see these new jewels.
your eyes will tell you what you need to know as far as color and clarity for a pendant or earrings. jmho. i am so anxious to see these new jewels.