My husband told me that I need to wear flats sometimes because if I wear heels all the time, I will wear myself out and won't be able to wear them anymore and my entire shoe collection (huge!) will go to waste. I don't know where he got that idea from but I freaked out and bought a pair of Cole Haan gold flats today (with nike air technology). THey are cute but I can't help but feel like a ten year old girl in them. They are cute but NOT sexy at all. And I feel short, I am only 5'8". And I am used to feel 6 feet tall. Help!!!!