I am going on a ban - who else is in? join me for a support group here

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I welcome myself to the handbag ban island... My last purchased was 2 weeks ago... I have 7 designer handbags, 6 contemporary designer bags, 2 wallets and 2 zippy coin purse... I'm always obsessed with designer ballet flats as well... so all and all... I decided not to buy anything designer for a year (set a very reasonable goal)... hope to save for a year just for the sake of saving not to buy anything else...
 
Ban till August!! Meanwhile I hope I dont make small expensive purchase in order to save up for bigger amount! Going to Japan next month and hope my hands and legs will be tied to prevent unnecessary shopping!
 
I'm banning myself from here on out. I've collected various types of bags for different occasions, so I know I'm set. Almost all of my bags are black, too, so they'll go with everything. I'm truly satisfied with my collection now. No more bags! This doesn't mean I'm going to stop enjoying and loving the aesthetics of hand bags. But I've learned over the years to know my limits and know what kinds of bags I'll actually carry and need (vs. getting bags that look pretty but don't fit my lifestyle). And this means that I must stop buying bags for a long stretch of time once I have everything I need.
 
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Hang in there! Word of advice - avoid enabling threads! (Note, most "shop my closet" threads are enabling threads, too.) Of course... if you decide not to resist - then you're not alone. This is tpf after all. :whistle:

A support group-- just what I need! Posted this in the wrong thread earlier, sorry for the duplication but I think now I'm posting in the right place.

I am completely obsessed with buying another designer bag. Do I need this bag? No. Can I afford this bag? Yes, but there are other things I should be focused on financially right now. Can I stop obsessing over it? No. Has anyone experienced this? How do you resist buying the bag?? Please help, I am weak! :sad:

Congrats for hopping on the ban wagon!

bought my last handbag last night and the ban begins today. I too need to use what I own before I pile up on new ones I don't need. I may give in at my birthday, though!

I think that most of us are ticket-booking-challenged. :lolots:

Good luck making it onto ban island!

I need a one way ticket to ban island and never come back! Anyone knows how to book a ticket?

Someone after my own heart!! I have the same goal: no designer anything for a year... saving for the sake of saving...

:ghi5: :hugs:

I welcome myself to the handbag ban island... My last purchased was 2 weeks ago... I have 7 designer handbags, 6 contemporary designer bags, 2 wallets and 2 zippy coin purse... I'm always obsessed with designer ballet flats as well... so all and all... I decided not to buy anything designer for a year (set a very reasonable goal)... hope to save for a year just for the sake of saving not to buy anything else...
 
So... how did the trip go... did you manage to stay on Ban Island?

Ban till August!! Meanwhile I hope I dont make small expensive purchase in order to save up for bigger amount! Going to Japan next month and hope my hands and legs will be tied to prevent unnecessary shopping!

Congratulations! :tup:

That's quite a feat... achieving the "pefect" collection. I bet it's lovely!!

Good luck sticking to your resolution!

I'm banning myself from here on out. I've collected various types of bags for different occasions, so I know I'm set. Almost all of my bags are black, too, so they'll go with everything. I'm truly satisfied with my collection now. No more bags! This doesn't mean I'm going to stop enjoying and loving the aesthetics of hand bags. But I've learned over the years to know my limits and know what kinds of bags I'll actually carry and need (vs. getting bags that look pretty but don't fit my lifestyle). And this means that I must stop buying bags for a long stretch of time once I have everything I need.

Wow! :faint:

One day... I hope to be exactly where you are... :sweatdrop:

In the meantime... I'm relaxing on Ban Island. :sunnies

Haven't bought a bag since 2011.
Haven't let go of any as well.
Will just use them up.
 
Can i join here too? I am offically being ban on purchasing pretty bags :( actually i thou of buying a bn pretty bags in boutique when i visit hk in may.. guess i jus got myself a deal tt i have to ban myself from those pretty bags however i will wana buy my stepmum a gift (pretty bags) when i going over there as a mother gift.. is too dumb not to buy any pretty bags... haha
 
Welcome!!

As long as the pretty bags are for your stepmum, then why not? :smile1:

Can i join here too? I am offically being ban on purchasing pretty bags :( actually i thou of buying a bn pretty bags in boutique when i visit hk in may.. guess i jus got myself a deal tt i have to ban myself from those pretty bags however i will wana buy my stepmum a gift (pretty bags) when i going over there as a mother gift.. is too dumb not to buy any pretty bags... haha
 
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