Today’s post is on coping when plastic surgery results are bad. When you embark on plastic surgery, tell yourself there is a 50:50 chance it will go extremely well and a 50:50 chance you will look worse or botched. With odds like these, you should ONLY do plastic surgery if you hate your sagging face or drooping nose and are willing to take the 50% risk that you may need to get a revision with the same surgeon or someone new as plastic surgery can be unpredictable. Don’t get a facelift if you have minor sagging. With botched or poor results, you will then find yourself going into hiding, staying at home, not meeting friends or relatives and dreading looking in the mirror. Take down all mirrors during this period of self loathing. Instead of blaming yourself, use this time to research. Ideally you want a free revision with your surgeon, unless you are extremely botched and cannot trust the surgeon. You should be looking at getting revision surgery at 6 months to a year.
Once you find a new surgeon (based on chatting with and seeing results of at least 3 ladies at one year postop), then you can book a consult, pay a deposit and get a final surgery date. This will give you hope. Do NOT fall for fancy websites. Do NOT use agencies as they get their cuts. You pay a lot less by chatting directly with the clinic or hospital (use kakao for Korean clinics). I like to send a photo of my passport and plane tickets so they know I am serious and will show up for my consults and surgery. If you are paying $20k or more, then you are paying too much. Remember there is a 50% chance of you needing a revision and you may have to pay for this so $20k suddenly becomes $40k…Chinese medical tourists in Korea and European and US foreigners are targets for being overcharged. Remember you can tell the clinics your bottom line, your budget and miraculously they will drop the price to fit your budget but tell you that you must not disclose the reduced amount. The problem is big hospitals have plenty of doctors so they can give your facelift to a relatively junior plastic surgeon. One way to protect yourself is to say you are posting a review with pictures on realself, this purseforum, instagram etc. If they know you will show your results, they should ensure you get decent results.
Remember no matter how bad your face is, it can be fixed as it is only skin, muscle, fat and tissues so the downtime is 6-12 months. If you ask to be added to a consult cancellation list, you get a consult faster. The same can be said for the surgery itself. I always say I am available for last minute cancellations for consults or the operation. And for Korea choose low season when students are back in school. Prices will be lower and there will be plenty of open surgery slots but try to book the first morning slot and a weekday as surgeons are tired on weekends and evenings.