^^ CG, whenever I am not sure about a bag, I would ask my SA to hold it at the store for me whilst I consider. And I would go back to the store a couple more times, if I have to, and then decide. I like others to be considerate towards me and not make me feel like the bag I have in my hands is a reject or return, and I therefore I am. I think the next person who gets offered the bag, needs to feel super about it.
I am glad that I have a H store locally. In states without H stores, or where distance becomes an issue, I can see that my scenario wouldn't apply. But I still ask for shoppers to be considerate.
I am confused here totally. If someone buys a bag and tries it on at home and then determines that the bag is not for them, then that bag is a reject?
Many many people don't have the option to hold items at a Hermes store unless they know you because you shop there a lot. Therefore, what works for you and what works for other people may not be quite the same...this is why I say, walk in someone else's shoes before you state where it pinches...