This is some really good food for thought. Thank you! I figure the CV must be making big dents on shopping everywhere, of course also in luxe goods. Maybe that will have passed though by the time I get there in a couple months.
I may do the DH-split-purchase thing, but my budget is not enough that I can spend 2x to get more offers... I guess I would do better consolidate my money in one SA/store like you suggest but maybe I shouldn't overthink this as I'm prone to doing
A separate (related?) issue is I work in NYC many many times each year and have been developing a possible SA relationship there. Since that SA and I really gel personality-wise, I would buy from her as well as from my home store (they get very different stock) and knowing they can't transfer bags... does that seems feasible or no? Like if there were a
non-quota bag available in the NYC store but not in my home store, would there be feelings of "cheating" or "stealing" if I were to purchase said less-in-demand item? the NYC SA understands I am on business when I am there (and that I have a main store) so the issue would only be with my home SA... but do SAs really (truly) think people don't shop at other stores when they travel? I assumed many people did shop elsewhere - of course with some discretion, but I have trouble imagining that most people
only ever shop at their home store? Maybe I'm completely out of left field (and I am quite tired writing this so apologizes if I'm off base or not making sense!). I guess I could establish myself as a long-term client there in addition to my home store (like you suggested about Hawaii if I visited there enough)
I do go to Hawaii frequently so I
could start a profile there, but probably not enough to justify it. Like you said maybe I should just browse and see if anything catches the eye. I guess the issue is if things DO catch my eye, should I go the "transfer to my home store" route (of course not
say it but it amounts to basically being rude to the person who's helping me) or just buy there with my DH's name? If it's something small (like an SLG or something) I wouldn't worry about it and just buy under my own name, would you? Since I have a budget, I probably wouldn't be one of those people who would walk in and say "I'll spend to get it" and the stack-up-stuff-then-ask method seems a little insensitive - I too would be uncomfortable doing that!
Again, thank you for your advices!