You can love and admire a brand and its craftsmanship, carry it almost exclusively, and be passionate about it but also be wholly unwilling to participate in this particular type of capitalism and consumerism. Bringing a lawsuit feels so very trivial. Rather, just go where your ethics lead you, the options are numerous and your time and money is better used elsewhere. I think there is an undeniable reality that people like to sugarcoat, which is, no matter how the company operates, no matter what your relationship with your store or SA is, and no matter how long you've been purchasing from them - this is a business and their goal is to make as much money as humanly possible. So, make your decisions based on your own morality/ethics.
1. If you want the privilege/clout of being offered an item after paying your "dues" to a wealthy company that ultimately doesn't really care about you, then you play by the well-known, unspoken, but somewhat clearly outlined rules you can find if you do any amount of due diligence on the object you want so badly (or face a fun surprise in person, either way).
2. Do you want the experience of being offered a bag after long-term patronage and loyalty to a wealthy company because patience/enjoyment/admiration/whatever we tell ourselves? Then you can give it a go and hope to be rewarded; experiences will vary. Enjoy the journey, as we say!
3. Are you disinterested in rabid consumerism in order to be offered an object by a wealthy company? Are you disinterested in pledging long-term loyalty to a wealthy entity that doesn't actually care about you because it's a business in the hope of being rewarded and you're doing it because patience/enjoyment/admiration/etc.? Then buy secondhand.
4. Are you disinterested in rabid consumerism, pledging loyalty to a wealthy entity that doesn't actually care about you because it's a business and you're environmentally conscious and find it all morally and ethically questionable how much we consume anyway but can't escape your love of fashion? Then buy vintage secondhand.
5. Hate consumerism and capitalism but begrudgingly accept it as part of life and shop for pleasure/fulfillment? Then internally torture yourself over every purchase and contend with the thought of man I could have done something pretty noble in my community with $7,000
6. Hate consumerism and capitalism, period? Don't participate, period; also, how did you end up on this forum
Full spectrum, lots of options not listed, all sorts of humans
Patronage at the Hermes store pays for the experience of exclusivity, which means that if you're purchasing from Hermes at all, you're already doing something hyper-exclusive to be in that monetary range. And you're further paying on top of that to obtain even more exclusivity in pursuit of a bag. A BAG.
In the end, no matter how you argue it, it's just - things -. In the grand scheme of life, it's so insignificant. The playing field isn't level to begin with; it's not in the nature of the beast for it to be level, and no matter what, if you're able to purchase anything Hermes, you have a privilege that the *vast* majority of the world will never have, let alone register on their radar of relevant life issues.
TLDR, I plead with much of the world to go touch grass. And find other better ways to show real, actual inequity in the world.