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Beautiful collection, Cordy! I noticed the two Ciels du feux and a Smiles in the 3rd millenary (or Pearls de Turkana - same artist). I personally think shopping between seasons is tough, the summery stuff is on sale and fleeting and the autumn stuff hasn't really started to arrive yet.

Orange next to green in a print is going to be different than orange next to yellow or red. I think your reaction to orange is "colored" (sorry for pun) by the colors that are next to it or a part of your outfit. The appearance of colors changes in relationship to the other colors they are combined with. Because of this I wouldn't automatically reject things with orange.

Color coordination has to do with analogous and complementary colors on the color wheel. Colors look different (that is, better or worse, more or less prominent, etc.) depending on what they are paired with. I think you have a very nice manageable collection of HS; there's no reason to reduce it. Hopefully you can find clothing that works with these orangey scarves b/c you have such a nice collection. It's obvious you thought your purchases out very carefully, you didn't just go ga-ga.

I lost another 5 lb by stuffing self with popcorn. I have a huge sweet tooth but a nurse once told me to learn to love salty snacks. (I know from experience that one sweet thing could lead to another with me). I think he was right even tho a doc objected to that b/c salt increases risk of hypertension. Fortunately, my readings are ok despite the popcorn. Now every day is popcorn day.

So, long story short, wore a embossed brocade vest in an Asian print (it is a bit more subdued than it sounds) for the first time in about a decade. It fit well then but I noticed that now the vest rides up in the back and toward my neck. That's a fitting problem. Back has probably gotten slightly more rounded from spending tons of time hunched over computers + aging. I didn't foresee that I'd have fitting problems due to shifting body contours. This makes a difference in what I should keep in closet.

A successful closet purge is never finished . . . I make repeated passes through the clothing. I also get obsessed with particular colors. Does anyone else have this tendency? So I have a lot of coral b/c that color was in fashion a year or so ago, a lot of teal green for the same reason. Have I touched either of these colors recently? Naw. So I must deliberately plan on wearing them.

I've decided I'm now obsessed with a blue I think of as a Chinese blue, which to me is a vivid medium blue with a slight undertone of green. Probably like blue b/c hair is graying in front.

I don't ever focus on neutrals, I focus on color and tend to have monochromatic outfits. Today wore a vivid yellow dress with a light undertone of green, a citron. Hadn't worn that color for a couple of years from the time I was obsessed with it. But now I see newscasters and other women on tv in a vivid yellow. It's time for me to get some more mileage out of citron.
I love the wardrobe discussions on this thread.

What kind of popcorn? Do you make it the old-fashioned way or microwave? I know air-popped is better for me but it tastes like styrofoam to me. (Not that I've eaten styrofoam.) I've read that people do really well managing weight with high-bulk, filling foods like that. It is a great idea.

So true about the color wheel. I wonder how that translates regarding colors near the face.
 
I enjoyed this article on Marie Kondo from the economic perspective and thought I'd share: https://www.theatlantic.com/busines...st-reads-marie-kondo/392921/?utm_source=atlfb

I think I have too much stuff but during our recent move our movers told us we don't have much! :wtf: Erm, we have way too many things that we don't use that we shouldn't be keeping but DH is sentimental with photos, videos to be digitized, etc that there's all these extra stuff.

I'm happy with my clothes, shoes, bags but other things which I don't care for like household supplies, etc all could really use some serious decluttering. We got rid of quite a few dishes and tableware before our move because I didn't like them nor find them useful since we have nicer things. That said, I'm nowhere near being a minimalist like I'd like to be in my head. :lol: :p

Great article! Thanks for posting that.
 
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Fizzy, one side effect of my moves is that I've had to give away so many books in my life that I now borrow from public libraries. Even better, I borrow them on my iPhone. I own a handful of books - mostly art and self help/mindfulness etc. but most of my reading is light, escape reading before bedtime.

Eagle, 5lbs loss is fantastic. I've gone the opposite way as I stopped drinking my kefir and ate very poorly in the last couple months due to extreme stress. The poor grains got sour and died. My gf gave me a new baby grain to nurture and start culturing again so I can keep up the positive effects.

I love our colour talk as well. I'm a firm believer in having a colourful home - I have a red chair and rug, white walls, with silver and black accents. My paintings are also strong colours - turquoise/pink/pale yellow.

Certain colours really make people glow. Hot pink (which is actually a cold colour) by my face does that for me. I have a lot of yellow in my skin tone, so the 'hold a sheet of white paper by your wrist to see a blue tone' test for CMB never worked. Someone said - look at your veins - blue versus green.

I have brown hair, black eyes, brown skin, so technically I am a warm skin tone, and cold colours look good on me. Whereas in the 90s the inclination was to put warm toned people in warm colours. Like brown. Nooooooo......
Jewel tones all the way.

I'm fascinated by this also.

Did anyone follow Chez Larsson? Benita was fantastic in organizing and I found her blog very motivational in decluttering and organizing my space. In my most recent clearing up from utter chaos, I noticed that the structure I'd set up years ago still remains, and most of my things had a place to go. Those that didn't were new and didn't have a designated home.
 
What kind of popcorn? Do you make it the old-fashioned way or microwave? I know air-popped is better for me but it tastes like styrofoam to me. (Not that I've eaten styrofoam.) I've read that people do really well managing weight with high-bulk, filling foods like that. It is a great idea.

So true about the color wheel. I wonder how that translates regarding colors near the face.

Once you add butter and salt, air popped tastes great. :biggrin:

I can't eat the microwave stuff anymore. One of the ingredients doesn't agree with me
 
I make my popcorn on the stovetop - heat up some oil, add the kernels and cover on high heat. Shake occasionally and remove when the popping slows down and you can only hear a few kernels when you shake it. Add salt, and a dash of butter, or those strange flavoured toppings if desired...

That may shake me off my chip addiction.
 
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Fizzy, one side effect of my moves is that I've had to give away so many books in my life that I now borrow from public libraries. Even better, I borrow them on my iPhone. I own a handful of books - mostly art and self help/mindfulness etc. but most of my reading is light, escape reading before bedtime.

Eagle, 5lbs loss is fantastic. I've gone the opposite way as I stopped drinking my kefir and ate very poorly in the last couple months due to extreme stress. The poor grains got sour and died. My gf gave me a new baby grain to nurture and start culturing again so I can keep up the positive effects.

I love our colour talk as well. I'm a firm believer in having a colourful home - I have a red chair and rug, white walls, with silver and black accents. My paintings are also strong colours - turquoise/pink/pale yellow.

Certain colours really make people glow. Hot pink (which is actually a cold colour) by my face does that for me. I have a lot of yellow in my skin tone, so the 'hold a sheet of white paper by your wrist to see a blue tone' test for CMB never worked. Someone said - look at your veins - blue versus green.

I have brown hair, black eyes, brown skin, so technically I am a warm skin tone, and cold colours look good on me. Whereas in the 90s the inclination was to put warm toned people in warm colours. Like brown. Nooooooo......
Jewel tones all the way.

I'm fascinated by this also.

Did anyone follow Chez Larsson? Benita was fantastic in organizing and I found her blog very motivational in decluttering and organizing my space. In my most recent clearing up from utter chaos, I noticed that the structure I'd set up years ago still remains, and most of my things had a place to go. Those that didn't were new and didn't have a designated home.

I had my colors done in the 90's by BeautiControl with the draping swatches, and was a "Summer." Cool dusty pastels, like pink, basically. I watched a friend do colors for several people, and I think she was correct in her assessments, but I never quite understood the reasoning behind it. I have a tendency to be sallow, so if I wear warm colors near my face I look quite bad. She talked about undertones and the need to match them. Something about how, no, I am actually a blue undertone and that yellow was not my undertone. (Was it my over-tone??? Lol!) She said if I was a true warm with yellow undertones, I would be a "Spring" which is clear, warm pastels like peach etc. I can see how that plays out in people who are strawberry blond or auburn. They really do seem to have peachy undertones. But for cools, (like you or me) I'm not sure I get it. If she was right, and I understand the concept, to be a cool/cold your undertones would be blue, even if your tendency on the surface is toward being warm or sallow. (???) This still makes no sense to me. I am a "cool," but when I look in the mirror all I see is warm. :huh:

Edit: She would probably term you a "Winter," Genie, cold jewel tones and icy clear colors if you wear things that are light colored. Is that the same as CMB?
 
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Cordie, kefir is a cultured milk product similar to yogurt. If you can't make it at home, store bought is fine. ;) (But the home brew is more potent).

I find it aids digestion and (take this with a grain of salt) helps keep my inflammation/edema down. But you have to take it every day. I would drink 1/4 to 1/2 cup around 4pm instead of a snack, and it was the perfect pick me up. Some people prefer it over granola etc as it can be quite sour.
 
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Beautiful collection, Cordy! I noticed the two Ciels du feux and a Smiles in the 3rd millenary (or Pearls de Turkana - same artist). It's obvious you thought your purchases out very carefully, you didn't just go ga-ga.

I lost another 5 lb by stuffing self with popcorn. I have a huge sweet tooth but a nurse once told me to learn to love salty snacks.

I didn't foresee that I'd have fitting problems due to shifting body contours. This makes a difference in what I should keep in closet.

A successful closet purge is never finished . . . I make repeated passes through the clothing.


I don't ever focus on neutrals, I focus on color and tend to have monochromatic outfits. Today wore a vivid yellow dress with a light undertone of green, a citron.

So much to comment on.

Pearls de Turkana is my favorite scarf and I am looking for Smiles in a moussie like Bunnycat's. Thanks for the complement on well thought out. I had lots of time to think what I like for about 4 years when we were doing a massive real estate rotation and absolutely everything was a higher priority moneywise than scarves. It was frustrating at the time but actually helpful as many things I used to like no longer do it for me.

You just slipped those dreary pieces of info in your post. Bodies change shape other than weight and closet purges never stop. Depressing. ha ha

I love monochromatic vivid color outfits. I have a pinterest board entitled vivid color. And I love vivid color in my home. The interior decorator, Jamie Drake, is called the king of color. He was a big influence on me. Almost every single person who comes to our house wants to know what the shade of blue of my living room is. I am amazed that you can do such a variety of vivid colors in your wardrobe.
 
Cordie, kefir is a cultured milk product similar to yogurt. If you can't make it at home, store bought is fine. ;) (But the home brew is more potent).

I find it aids digestion and (take this with a grain of salt) helps keep my inflammation/edema down. But you have to take it every day. I would drink 1/4 to 1/2 cup around 4pm instead of a snack, and it was the perfect pick me up. Some people prefer it over granola etc as it can be quite sour.

Is it better than yogurt? I went to whole foods a couple weeks ago to hunt for the yogurt brand that has the most active cultures in it. Decided that it was Fage. I put it in a protein shake in the morning to hide the sourness.
 
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