Thank you, ladies. The dress is one I've had for about a decade and I pull it out for spring/summer weddings, if appropriate. In fact my friend who got married is the one who picked it out for me, so I thought that was an appropriate touch. (So glad it still fit).
I enjoyed getting dressed up, making an entrance, catching up with people I hadn't seen for ages, and left when my introversion kicked in. It was one of the easiest weddings I've attended because it was so informal - just a party, really.
Aww Genie, I never pictured you as an introvert. I'm glad you had a good time. I am sure your beautiful outfit gave you greater confidence.
That's exactly what we did for our wedding. Both DH and I had been married before. Our parents were elderly and couldn't travel. So we had a small family only ceremony in Florida and then a cocktail party for friends back in Boston. I was actually able to enjoy it and spend time with the people that I love rather than worrying about the traditional details. Plus I don't really like being on display so the traditional bride role wasn't something that I wanted to do.