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Norton is dark with big fruity flavors and firm acidity. Very Bordeaux-like. No grass, herb, hard acids, astringency, or tongue-wrenching tannin. No-fuss to drink and ages really nicely. I am not sure how easy it is to get, but Chrysalis Vineyards has a 2014 Norton called Locksley Reserve for under $40. Virginia has some really nice Petit Verdot wines too. I am amazed at the quality of wines now from all over the US.

I have a friend who lives in Virginia & Miami Beach & bought a farm near UVa. She was describing the wines grown in that area. I tend to associate American wines with California & Oregon. There are many more regions than I realize producing good quality wines
 
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Oh gosh. You guys were busy overnight.

Wine: I love Italian wines. For anyone in Philadelphia you must go to panorama wine bar on front street and buy a flight called the Italian stallions. It's very Philadelphia.

Sweeteners: I'm not super careful about additives in my foods and I drank sugar free beverages forever. A few years back I decided that a teaspoon of sugar was better than any chemical.

Shoes: bergdorfs has the most amazing shoe department. I'm lucky that I don't go there often. I would be broke. I like that they carry a variety of heel heights. I'm feeling a bit overloaded on shoes at the moment. But I could probably use some attractive snow boots for winter.

I'm so excited that my dress is coming in. I'm going Saturday to make sure it fits. There might be another surprise waiting for me as well. [emoji16]

I stopped using artificial sweeteners a while ago. I found it made me hungrier. I find a little sugar satiating. I love desserts. As much as I like sugar, I do not care for it in coffee or tea.

I don't buy as many shoes as I did. The lifestyle where I live is casual. My most recent boot purchase were Chanel rain boots from NM. Does that count?

Good luck with your dress. Best wishes for a nice surprise!
 
My goodness, PbP was right! Very chatty last night!
My favorite fraudulent charge was someone who got a hold of my AmEX and was buying train tickets in Italy and booking hotels on the Riviera. Sounded like a great trip, too bad I wasn't the one going. The CC caught it ASAP and the culprits never got to enjoy any of it. My least favorite fraudulent mishap was I was standing at the register at the Hermes boutique in Palm Beach and the SA told me my AmEx was rejected! Whaaaat? I had no notifications from the CC company and was clueless, not to mention upset and mad. I used another card for the purchase and as soon as I returned to my mom's home, I called the CC company. They had put a hold on my card because of suspected fraudulent activity and neglected to inform me. I was upset because that was the card linked to my airline ticket. I managed to get them to re-instate the card until I returned home after telling them my exact travel plans and time of arrival at home. Whew! It is scary out there and the only good news is that you are not responsible for the charges. I always make sure to notify the CC company when and where I am taking a trip so I don't get any rude surprises. I

RE avoiding distasteful retail experiences: We used to have a very nice ladies retail boutique that had great things and in-house alterations. The SA worked on commission and were beyond pushy. I finally said "no mas" and never went back. The last thing you want is buying an expensive garment that you really don't like and will never wear.

PbP: Very guilty of using artificial sweeteners in tea and oatmeal. Managed to wean myself to black coffee. On the whole I totally agree with you that these things are a bunch of chemicals and feel that way about margarine, and that has not been purchased in decades. I use butter for baking, cooking, and eating.

It can be uncomfortable when the cc is declined. It has not happened to me recently. Usually I get a text to verify my purchase. My current credit cards do not have a chip. Is it safer with one? I use Apple Pay for convenience. It's not accepted yet at many places. Like you, if I'm doing something outside my normal pattern of spending, I inform the cc company.

Related to credit card charges, I put the card to a lot of use the past six months on repairs to my car. I hope she is appreciative[emoji600]
 
I have been told aspartame may have side effects.
I try to stay away from artificial sweeteners.
Yes, it does. One summer I was writing a paper and consumed maybe 8-10 big McD's diet cokes. I never got into that drink to speak of, was more of a latte drinker. The next summer and afterwards I got to the point where I drank a lot fewer of them, interspersed with large glasses of ice water. Doc said try to cut out aspartame. Another doc (different specialty) said the same (I loved diet cherry cola). Once in a while I have a cherry cola.
 
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I stopped using artificial sweeteners a while ago. I found it made me hungrier. I find a little sugar satiating. I love desserts. As much as I like sugar, I do not care for it in coffee or tea.

I don't buy as many shoes as I did. The lifestyle where I live is casual. My most recent boot purchase were Chanel rain boots from NM. Does that count?

Good luck with your dress. Best wishes for a nice surprise!

Thank you!! Rain boots definitely count!
 
I stopped using artificial sweeteners a while ago. I found it made me hungrier. I find a little sugar satiating. I love desserts. As much as I like sugar, I do not care for it in coffee or tea.

I don't buy as many shoes as I did. The lifestyle where I live is casual. My most recent boot purchase were Chanel rain boots from NM. Does that count?

Good luck with your dress. Best wishes for a nice surprise!
It rains in Fla a fair amount, right? Then you need rain boots. Problem solved. :smile:
 
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I have never had a card declined for an online purchase. I have a mac computer & an iPhone. Do they have good fraud protection? Once I received a bogus email from my bank asking me to verify certain information which I did. It did not seem right and I called the bank. They told me it was not how they verify that information & to forward the email to their fraud department which I did. I would be interested who these people or organizations are & how they obtain the ability to get into our emails or accounts. It's never been revealed to me. I sure there are reasons.

The same thing has happened to me multiple times! It is such a creepy, invasive feeling that people are out there with schemes like this. I figured out quickly not to call them back, but one time I was tricked. I got a letter from my credit card stating that "John Smith" (some named individual) had opened an account using my name and that if I wanted to dispute this to call the 1-800 number listed. When I called, a representative from the credit card answered and asked me to verify my info. I gave him my cc number, my name and was starting to give him my birthdate before I suddenly got a weird feeling. I put him on speaker phone and my husband came over. He told me to hang up the phone. He called the 1-800 number on the back of the card and we were told that this was a scam and to never call a number on a letter no matter who it is from, always call the card/bank directly. This letter from my "credit card" came with the same letter background, letterhead and logos that the real letters that my credit card sends to me (for example when they are notifying me of some little policy change). I fell for this scam because 2 people HAVE actually tried to open accounts in my name in the past, so I was in such a rush to stop the fraud that I fell right into their hands, exactly as intended.
 
I have never had a card declined for an online purchase. I have a mac computer & an iPhone. Do they have good fraud protection? Once I received a bogus email from my bank asking me to verify certain information which I did. It did not seem right and I called the bank. They told me it was not how they verify that information & to forward the email to their fraud department which I did. I would be interested who these people or organizations are & how they obtain the ability to get into our emails or accounts. It's never been revealed to me. I sure there are reasons.

I think the extremely high fraud alert is on my card because there has been significant fraud activity on one of my cards in the past. I don't think my phone (iPhone) or my computer are cancelling the purchases, it is the actual card. It happens sometimes but not always, but it is always for larger online or phone purchases, not for in person swiped purchases.
 
I stopped using artificial sweeteners a while ago. I found it made me hungrier. I find a little sugar satiating. I love desserts. As much as I like sugar, I do not care for it in coffee or tea.

I don't buy as many shoes as I did. The lifestyle where I live is casual. My most recent boot purchase were Chanel rain boots from NM. Does that count?

Good luck with your dress. Best wishes for a nice surprise!

Your suspicions about artificial sweeteners making you feel hungrier has been confirmed by research. Unfortunately, I cannot drink black coffee, but with a little steamed soy (no lactose for me) I can avoid the sugar or equal. As mentioned, I do use stevia at times. I think it is the best of the not-great options. It is an herb, natural, but it has a bitter aftertaste unless it is processed to remove those bitter compounds, becoming no longer natural.

I am always considering rain boots since I live in Seattle, but I am unclear on the function and logistics. Do you wear them over your real shoes like galoshes? Do you bring your real shoes in your bag and change at your destination? Do you leave your boots in your car? I don't mind bringing extra things with me; for example a jacket to take on and off during the day, but it is much less messy to carry around a jacket compared to wet boots.
 
I am already dreading the weather forecast for the next two days. :noworry:

Rain coming for you? Our rainy season has arrived in full force.
The worst part is the days getting shorter. In the summer there is enough light to do things outside until 10:30pm. In the winter it is black out by 3:30 sometimes if it is raining/dark skies. I believe our actual winter sunset is around 4pm. In the last few months it has gone from having a few hours of sun after work to dark skies when I leave.
 
My husband was off work and at home today while I was at work. When I got home, I went to the bedroom to put some things away and noticed that my bags were peeking out of their places, a strap handing out here, a twilly showing there. It was very cute, he said he just wanted to look at the bags I have not used lately because he likes them and I have not rotated my bags much lately. With an 8 month old I have been sticking more with dark colors and a shoulder/cross body option.
Do your husbands or significant others find pleasure in your bags also?
 
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My husband was off work and at home today while I was at work. When I got home, I went to the bedroom to put some things away and noticed that my bags were peeking out of their places, a strap handing out here, a twilly showing there. It was very cute, he said he just wanted to look at the bags I have not used lately because he likes them and I have not rotated my bags much lately. With an 8 month old I have been sticking more with dark colors and a shoulder/cross body option.
Do your husbands or significant others find pleasure in your bags also?

He seems like a keeper.

Rain coming for you? Our rainy season has arrived in full force.
The worst part is the days getting shorter. In the summer there is enough light to do things outside until 10:30pm. In the winter it is black out by 3:30 sometimes if it is raining/dark skies. I believe our actual winter sunset is around 4pm. In the last few months it has gone from having a few hours of sun after work to dark skies when I leave.

I can't stand the rain. Especially when I have to be out in it for hours. It has been getting darker a lot earlier here too.
 
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