I will return the unworn one - I hate to - but there is no sense in keeping it. I might wait until spring to order another one, the available selection is so small right now - just about everything is either sold out or unavailable…You don’t have big wrists, the double tour bands are painfully short! Personally I don’t wear them but they do loosen up. I would return the unopened one, get a single so you can wear the watch. You can use leather stretch on the band and see if they can punch an extra hole. They do soften quite a bit.
Unless I want brown - and I really don't want brown.