I love both!!! I am a neutral girl too but I must say that I love the rouge vif in the city size~ rouge vif in the work may be too much for you since you don't like brighter colors for you. Caramel '05 is one of my all time favorites and you can't go wrong with it in any style. I'm going to vote for caramel though b/c I am in love with any caramel color and I am partial to it since I have it.