Wendy,
I see that you decided to post this question AFTER I had paid you this morning at 10:18a. As I mentioned in my message to you that I did no have internet access at the time that the auction ended, as I was returning with my SO from an International holiday. Having had to deal with flight delays and lost luggage, my thoughts were elsewhere when I arrived home. The auction was won with a sniper bid. I told you that I was considering your other auction and would complete the checkout process then. I changed my mind and decided to just complete this transaction. Note: I was prepared to outbid the other person because I wanted the purse.
While my account may be relatively new, I have been buying and selling on eBay for many years and I have never walked away from a purchase without paying. I think that you and many here assumed that I was a PITA or deadbeat, without knowing about any of the circumstances. As for the other seller, she hastily assumed the same and left me negative feedback, and I found this out as I was preparing to pay for her auction, 10 minutes too late. She did so without pursuing the correct protocol, of sending a payment reminder or filing a NPB alert, which is not an option until after the 7th day.
I only hope that my sharing this with you and other new sellers that you will follow proper protocol and consider that your buyer is not trying to take advantage of you.
I look forward to receiving my new purse as you and I have agreed with the shipping terms.
Thanks for being a great seller,
Lenise