Thank you Nicole. I was hoping the seller would let me return without opening a case (giving her the chance to not have this against her) and in that case would have to depend on her to give me the correct address. That was my initial worry.
...and yes - the item was listed as New with Tags in the listing. The same item was on
Fashionphile recently listed as new (but no tag) and the price was lower. I did not mind paying the increased price to get the tag from the ebay seller because you never know if you might want to sell later .....the tag would make a difference in that respect.
I think I will have to return like you stated by opening a case to handle it without worry.