I have three holes in each ear, two in the lobe part where most people would have two and then a space and then another one. I don't think it's that noticeable and I've only ever had one or two people comment on them and it was never anything negative, just stuff like "oh I never realised you had three earrings". I wear three average size silver sleepers in each ear but I am thinking of changing it to one normal sized diamond (fake) and then two smaller ones in each ear.