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My DH surprised me with a custom ring when he proposed. People compliment the ring like crazy in person.

Secretly (ok, not so secretly I told him this years after) I wish I got to pick my ring since I'll be wearing it forever. I think you should propose with a placebo ring (something cute that she could wear as her right hand ring) and then have her pick her own ring by letting her look at the pictures in this forum. I think she'll love you letting her pick her ring since her tastes and her look are unique. I like the ring my DH gave me, but I'm not in love with it. It's probably worth $100,000 plus by now with all these diamond increases too. I sound ungrateful I know, but I still wish I picked my ring since I'm the one wearing it, not him.

Just a thought. I'm sure both of you would have fun doing the ring shopping, especially her if you let her choose.

I don't know why I didn't think of that myself. That's a great idea. Is there any way to contact a jeweler and ask for a spread of rings for her to choose from that are within my budget? A variety of shapes too.
 
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Are these classy? The reason why I thought yellow gold is better is because she is a bit warmer in skin tone. She has a year round summer tan! But I love how crisp the platinum looks.

Also. She is a gloves girl. She wears leather gloves and I feel a big high set ring would interfere. What do I do about this?

Love the first one! There are ways to have the diamond set as low as possible, so it won't interfere with gloves. A good jeweler should be able to make suggestions.
 
I don't know why I didn't think of that myself. That's a great idea. Is there any way to contact a jeweler and ask for a spread of rings for her to choose from that are within my budget? A variety of shapes too.

That is what I would do, or let her in on the budget and select it together. I am also of the mind that unless you were explicitly told to surprise her, that it's a horrible idea. Hell, even if she says so, don't surprise her with the ring. You can get that together then do a surprise proposal.
 
I don't know why I didn't think of that myself. That's a great idea. Is there any way to contact a jeweler and ask for a spread of rings for her to choose from that are within my budget? A variety of shapes too.

Depends on where you live. Out in LA, there's the diamond district. Out in NY, there is one too.

But local jewelers are all over the place. Where are you located?

If you have an open budget, your girl may want a brand name. It really depends on the style. I've seen the Leon Mege designs lately, and they are gorgeous. I'll forward the link. People in TX work with him and he's all the way in NY. Word of caution though, some people have a great experience with him, and some people just plain hate him. I think he is great for diamond settings. I wouldn't buy a diamond from him - it's not his specialty I think.
 
Hello all!

This forum is so great.

It's that time in my life where I'm ready to take the next step with my girlfriend of 6 years. I have asked her family for advice on rings but I'm still confused as to what shape to get.

The majority of her jewelry is yellow gold so should I stick with that? She has a big personality. She is fashion forward, glamorous and beyond beautiful. She is a conservative dresser (not frumpy) and is really a "Chanel No. 5 and red lipstick" girl (she says that all the time).

She doesn't like round cut stones. She did express this to me in passing. I know she likes Cartier and Van Cleef.

What kind of shape do you think would suit her? Should I get a coloured stone? I dont have a budget so fire away.

Pictures would be great!

Thanks everyone. This is so great!

Bart
does this seem trashy/flashy a la Kardashian?
 

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Bart, if you need help negotiating a lower cost for a diamond with a local jeweler, Hermesaholic is your guide. I read that she bought her beautiful big rock for a fraction of a Harry Winston diamond's price.

You should definitely have your girl pick her ring. Just propose and surprise her with a pretty ring and let her pick THE ONE. :smile1: Who knows...she may keep the pretty ring for sentimental value.
 
or this link http://www.pricescope.com/forum/show-me-the-ring/leon-mege-t24698.html the detail is crazy beautiful.

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I love yellow diamonds, but I don't know if your GF loves it too. The detail is lovely on this ring. The center stone is also set low, which is something your GF might like.
 

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or this link http://www.pricescope.com/forum/show-me-the-ring/leon-mege-t24698.html the detail is crazy beautiful.

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I love yellow diamonds, but I don't know if your GF loves it too. The detail is lovely on this ring. The center stone is also set low, which is something your GF might like.

Okay, wow, that yellow diamond is exquisite!!

I quite like

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Can anyone tell me what the design on the top and bottom of the emerald cut are? It almost looks like lace. Is that just unique to a certain cut?
 
When you say Chanel No 5 and red lipstick, I think pear. Of course I'm partial as I have and love one :smile1:. Think young Elizabeth Taylor, all glamour! If she has classic style, you may not want a very super detailed ring. Something big and gorgeous, letting the stone speak for itself. Three stone would be very nice. That being said, I think my ring is so perfect because I picked every detail myself. Had my dh picked my ring, I doubt I would have loved it so. Good luck!
 
Christine LOVES yellow diamonds. She was watching gossip girl (I know, a grown woman) and was FAWNING over the brown haired girls ring from that prince guy.

I was snooping (forgive me) in her drawer to see if I could pull out any more personality pieces to share with you guys and I find a Cartier catalogue that I didn't know she had. I looked at a bookmarked page and lo-and-behold, this is what I found.

Next to the picture it said "with a yellow diamond." I think she was hoping I would find this LOL.

I personally associate pear shaped jewels with royals. Its always on their tiaras. Maybe I am crazy! Maybe a pear will help her not be another cookie cutter woman - which she is not.

-- The idea of an emerald is glamorous but I feel like its so trendy. I did massive googling and its on the fingers of all these hollywood ladies. She is not a trendy person - she wears what is timeless and what will last forever - with a few pieces give or take.

Right now, I really wish I were the woman in this situation. This is getting to be super hard.

OHH one more note - I would also like to avoid halo rings like the plague.


- K, how do I attach a photo?
 
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