She should send the refund right away. It sounds like she's holding it until you comply with her withdrawing drom the sale. Which is way wrong of her!
Oh, I wont agree to anything until I have my refund!
I would keep checking to see if they are relisted, in her defense I have 3 dogs and maybe she had them out to ship them and the dog got one.
I heard back from her. No pictures, she's wondering why I still want the shoes when they're "broken"