Does having a nice bag mean you're a snob?

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#151
I get compliments on some of my bags at times, but I don't think people know or care what kind of bag they are. I am not snobbish, but I do enjoy nice things sometimes. It makes me feel good or uplifts my spirits when I'm under stress. I hope I don't sound shallow. I'm sure not trying to show off. My friends aren't into designer bags so they don't even know.
 
#152
im soo into nice handbags..im addicted to bags.lots of my fren will think im crazy for spending so much money on one bag but of course i'll just ignore them.they just couldn't understand why until i pointed out one big point to them,they spend 200 on a bag that will only last 2 or 3 weeks.the stitching is poor n the pvc leather crack after using it a few times.after that they hv to buy a new one.i'll buy a bag that cost 2k but can hold up more than 3 or 5 yrs.
 
#154
For 2K, I think a handbag would be a lifelong friend.:D Seriously, I have some purses that made it through a season and were a mess, obviously inexpensive and poorly made. Then I have some that I've had for many years, still in good shape. I keep them even though I rarely if ever use them.
 
#156
No, you are not a snob. I think that jealousy and/or insecurity can play a part in people's perceptions. I have had people ask how much I spent on a purse and try to say that I judge people by their appearances/purses b/c I have nice, classy,designer bags. I tell them that their insecurity does not affect me and that it is a symptom of their insecurity that they obsess overy my bags. These same people spend money on other things and I don't care.
It is up to you on what you spend your money. It is not their business. Just because they want to spend it on something else, then they can do so with their money. And if you are not going into debt, then have at it.
 
#157
I have family, my mother and sister who think I am materialistic because I like to have nice purses, I have two Coach one from an outlet and one off ebay (soon to be buying my own brand new one from a Coach store) and three purses from a Montreal Designer "Matt & Nat" one I got for super cheap and the other two I got on sale....I just like having nice bags and I think that different things are important to different people
 
#158
I get my nice bags to cheer myself up. Maybe sometimes I'm too happy to have one of them and, I know, this made people think that I'm showing off.
I dont care if people think that i'm a snob, as long as I really enjoy to have one of these bags. But, I will be aware and not to let others feel that I want to show off.
 
#163
chymera said:
Sorry, I really need to vent!

A friend just called me PATHETIC for wanting another bag!!! I don't come from a rich family or get things easily so I'm not sure where this is coming from and this isn't the first time! Other friends and family have said this to me too, but I have easily shrugged them off. This doesn't stop at friends and family, it also continues in the work place.

I have been talking about getting a new Prada bag for my birthday this Sunday that I have saved (money) for myself and she thinks it's pathetic as I already have a few Chanel's and LV bags. I understand that if I was in huge debt and couldn't afford these bags, then I would call myself pathetic too.
Is this sort of attitude pure jealously, or am I doing something wrong here? These people make me feel like i'm not rich or worthy enough to own a nice hand bag?

Can anyone relate to this?
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Let's be honest here, bags are just bags. They have about the same function as a plastic bag. HOWEVER, bags are accessories and therefore, can be considered art pieces. Women wear jewelry to compliment an outfit. Bags are the same - some women buy big diamonds, others buy the best hardware and most perfect stitching on a piece of leather. You shouldn't get too emotionally attached to your bags. They are just objects! The main issue here is not the bag itself but that your friend disagrees with your spending habits! Had you bought any expensive designer item, she would have probably said the same.

People who don't appreciate designer goods will always say that buying something over a certain amount of dollars is a waste; But also ask yourself if you are putting too much emphasis in discussing your designer choices, knowing that the people you are talking to have zero interest in them, it could truly tick them off. This is the main reason why I never talk to anyone about my bags except on this forum. You have to be sensitive and know that most do not care about bags and if you discuss it with them, they will think you're just showing off.

Enjoy your bags but pick their audience. Your money shouldn't be her business but if there is a cause for alarm, such as if you're maxing your credit cards and starving yourself then she has every right to comment. However, it seems that you've got it all together so I think you should just let it pass and never discuss your bags with her.
 
#165
Tinagirl11 said:
Let's be honest here, bags are just bags. They have about the same function as a plastic bag. HOWEVER, bags are accessories and therefore, can be considered art pieces. Women wear jewelry to compliment an outfit. Bags are the same - some women buy big diamonds, others buy the best hardware and most perfect stitching on a piece of leather. You shouldn't get too emotionally attached to your bags. They are just objects! The main issue here is not the bag itself but that your friend disagrees with your spending habits! Had you bought any expensive designer item, she would have probably said the same.

People who don't appreciate designer goods will always say that buying something over a certain amount of dollars is a waste; But also ask yourself if you are putting too much emphasis in discussing your designer choices, knowing that the people you are talking to have zero interest in them, it could truly tick them off. This is the main reason why I never talk to anyone about my bags except on this forum. You have to be sensitive and know that most do not care about bags and if you discuss it with them, they will think you're just showing off.

Enjoy your bags but pick their audience. Your money shouldn't be her business but if there is a cause for alarm, such as if you're maxing your credit cards and starving yourself then she has every right to comment. However, it seems that you've got it all together so I think you should just let it pass and never discuss your bags with her.
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Very insightful
 
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