I used to be completely obsessive about my bags, but I hated that I'd feel so bummed when I'd get a scratch or a mark so I've eased up. It still bothers me but I'm not as crushed. I've also figured out which bags to carry where, which helps. I am still anal about making sure that the bag is in pristine condition when I buy it (otherwise it's like buying a defective bag), but not as much about keeping it that way. While they're not meant to be abused, bags are meant to be used and enjoyed!