I had a similar experience. I bought a Botkier Bianca in cognac color that was very similar to the leather on your Kooba - kind of coated, not exactly patent leather but somewhat shiny. My husband reacted the exact same way -- didn't like it thought it looked cheap, etc. I finally returned it not because he didn't like it but I decided that although it was a nice bag, I had gotten it on sale and my preference was really the soft leather that most of the Biancas are made out of. I still haven't gotten a Bianca but maybe some day. Anyway your bag is nice so as long as you don't mind the coated leather, just ignore him. He'll get over it.