I don't think anyone hates you at all - people here are very nice. I think sometimes though these kinds of posts are kind of hard because people don't want to be negative at all so they just don't respond, rather than kind of shoot down something someone is interested in. I do think the pomme would be a little too feminine. It's red patent leather and that might be a little hard to pull off as a guy. What about a groom wallet in compact blue or something? Welcome to the forum!
I don't think pomme is a good idea, you'd probably hate it too.
Why don't you go epi or suhali? More expensive but you guys have a way of making your stuff last forever.
I don't think anyone hates you....you should get something that you like. And if nothing is jumping out at you-wait for the new linees and see if you like that
I have the zippy organizer. I do agree it's a little bit too big though. You should go to the boutique and take a look at all the wallets, that should be helpful.