I don't think anyone hates you at all - people here are very nice. I think sometimes though these kinds of posts are kind of hard because people don't want to be negative at all so they just don't respond, rather than kind of shoot down something someone is interested in. I do think the pomme would be a little too feminine. It's red patent leather and that might be a little hard to pull off as a guy. What about a groom wallet in compact blue or something? Welcome to the forum!