My remark was not intended to offend. It simply a description of how the market has largely viewed two tone Daytonas for nearly the last 20 years. Go back and read post #24. I've been actively collecting watches for over 20 years and have owned/own several Daytonas including a two tone ref 16523. From the late 1990s until now, two tones in general were so unpopular that most high end brand stopped offering them. Companies like Patek, AP and VC stopped offering steel and gold versions of their sports watches such as the Nautilus, RO, and 222/Phideas from the late 1990s until now. Only a few brands such as Rolex, Cartier, and Omega and some lesser brands continuously produced steel and gold watches.
The fact that you and your husband have two tone Daytonas is nice, but its the market in general that favored both all steel and all gold Daytonas over the two tone models (its a fact, not an opinion). But the advantage was anyone that wanted a steel and gold Daytona was able to get it often at such are large discount that it often cost about as much or even less than a steel Daytona did (and you were getting some precious metal with the two tone).
In addition, steel Daytonas stopped being hard to get around 2008/2009. If your dealer has made your husband wait 3 years, I'd say find a new dealer, as yours isn't doing you guys any favors. 6 Years ago or more anybody that wanted a steel Daytona had to be on a wait list, but not anymore. Check some of the dedicated Rolex forums you will find they are much easier to get and no one is waiting years to get them anymore. Good luck.