Woah!! Thanks for sharing BritAbroad. Definitely learned something today. x
Happy to share when I can, Hermesdiorduo

I use very, very little baby shampoo with ice cold water - just a couple of drops. Dry cleaning is just very harsh, and the chemicals irritate the skin on my neck.
If you know of something milder than baby shampoo, please let me know.![]()
I also have very sensitive skin too, dooneybaby, I understand you completely.
I wear a lanyard for work and just got a new one and the ribbon, or something on the ribbon, made neck red raw after just one shift... oy vey. Some scarves I can't wear at all, luckily (though not for my wallet!) I haven't had that issue with H.
I use Laundress cashmere/wool shampoo myself, just a very tiny amount in cold water with a dye catcher just in case and I rinse very well without agitating the fabric too much.
I haven't had a shawl that's soiled or stained to be able to say how well it would remove stains. But it works for me so far and and I rinse well and so far it's not irritated my skin, despite being scented (my shawls don't smell scented after). I'm not sure if you have tried it with any success or if you're sensitive to it?