Perhaps I'm from a different generation, or maybe I've been working too long, but here's my 2 cents.
I went to college. I got a job. Then I went to law school. I worked as a prosecutor for 10 years and made the switch to a new (to me) area of law essentially starting over.
Let me tell you: nothing I "learned" in college or law school prepared me for practice. It has taken years of experience to understand that. My degrees simply qualified me for an interview. That's it. Once I got my respective jobs, I had to start at hte bottom. When I took my job as a prosecutor I had come from a year long post grad contract position working on a multibillion dollar public international law arbitration case with a Yale law professor. Guess how many of my hard working, trial warrior colleagues in the DA's office cared about that? None. Zero. They were hard refining their own skills, trying tough cases under insanely adverse circumstances of an underfunded office in an urban area. It took me years to build my reputation based on results, character and hard work. YEARS.
Now I'm starting over and proving myself. As a woman, I fully understand and accept it will take me longer than some of my male colleagues at my firm. That's ok. I'll have to be smarter, stronger, more efficient, produce better results, bring in more $$ and have better rapport with my clients to get there.
And you know what? I'll end up smarter, stronger, more efficient, producing better results and bringing in more $$ with clients who respect me and tell all their friends about that lady lawyer who treated them fairly.
It takes time and humility. I also recommend you sit down and really reflect on where you want to be in 5 & 10 years, respectively. Then you can judge everything you do and the career decisions you make on how they are moving you toward that goal.
I left law school with one goal: to be the most skilled trial lawyer in the state. Then I said yes to opportunities I thought would get me there. I hope that helps. It's hard to have a long view when you're starting, but I'll tell you that I don't think you're being treated unfairly.