After trying diff things I now must admit I don't know how to add a link--any body want to direct me to the info?
Do you mean you don't know how to post a link, in general?
If so, you post a link by left clicking on the text in the address bar (the area where you enter the website address) of the page you want to link to, which highlights it and then you right click on the highlighted text and select 'Copy'.
You then go to the tPF page with the post you want to post the link on (or wherever else you might want to post the link) and right click, again, this time selecting 'Paste'.
As Ellie says, you aren't allowed to post a link to your auction, yourself, but your buyer can do it for you (and for herself!), if you give her the link to the Authenticate This LV thread.
Also --who is responsible buyer?/seller? in this whole authentication thing? If I say no return what is my recourse? Will Paypal etc accept the sales ticket? Would you just accept return or stick to your guns?
I would certainly continue to insist that the wallet was auth and would try my best to convince the buyer, by asking her to ask about it here.
This is because, otherwise, you might receive an unwarranted neg for selling a fake.
For me, it wouldn't be about trying to force the buyer to keep something she didn't want, it would be about making sure she knew the truth.
I am thinking about sending a letter saying--Be honest, if it is authenicity you are concerned about I am going to do everything I can to assure you its real, if it is money problems, lets discuss that.
You could do that, but you might run the risk of offending her, if she has genuine concerns about authenticity... :s