Short answer: No.
Longer answer: It's all a matter of taste and preference, really. I'm 5'1" and happily carry a 35 on a regular basis. A 30 looks like it works on me, but I *feel* like it's too small. I even have a 40 that I used to carry a lot, it's just too heavy for me these days! Other women who are about our height or even several inches taller say that the 35 is way too big for them though. It depends on how proportional you want your bag to be, what your build is like, whether you want or need to carry a lot of stuff, whether the bag's weight is a consideration, etc. And then of course there is the issue of availability since as we all know we can't always get our first choice in size, color, leather, hardware, etc. (assuming you are buying at Hermes instead of a reseller, that is).
I say throw out the "Rule Books" and carry what YOU love and what YOU feel looks great on you!