Try Ojon's Restorative Treatment. I use it once a week and it makes my hair softer.
my hair is really dry too. i use hair moisturisers form LUSH. i put them on dry hair pop a shower cap on and leave it overnight then wash it out the next day. i do it about once a month
the strokes. it smells so good. i used to love arabian bright(i think thats what it was called) but they stopped making itI love LUSH. Is there a specific one you use?