I personally do not go out much, but just curious... what is the best evening/night-out monogram SHOULDER purse that can be used for dinners out or nights out (bars, clubs, lounge, dancing) and that is at the same time, roomy and big enough for all of the essentials (keys, wallet, cell phone, make-up case, camera, pepper spray/mace, hand lotion, gum/mints, e.t.c.)?