^sigh.. yeah, someone who is all of (a), but whom i'd feel (b) about. someone kind, a great partner and companion, who loves me, and is totally committed to the relship; but whom also i'm deeply in love with, lit up by, fallen for.
also, someone who has dealt with and not crippled anymore by the deep issues that cripple so many men; such as anger, frustration, lack of direction and purpose, lack of identity and self-belief.
and since we're wishing here =):
- has a great job with a fabulous secure income, but with normal working hours and plenty of time off
- is very generous with that income and happy to support my pursuits and lifestyle.
- whose family lives far away
- is amazing in bed and well-built where it counts (can i say that here?)
- has at least decent sense of wardrobe style; or happy for me to pick out his outfit. and is of nice average build and looks.
i'm hogging this page, so someone else go ahead and answer may3645's question:
"Describe your ideal husband!"