I have a 1.3-1.4 ct. solitaire and it looks perfect on my size 4 finger! I'm sure that I'll upgrade someday, but after I have my dream house, dream car, etc. and if it even looks okay on my little fingers. DH and i looked at larger stones, but I "needed" one that was almost colorless and flawless, which is much harder to find in a larger stone. Until you're ready, you should play around with different bands. I just got married 6 months ago and I'm expecting my second band for Christmas!