Ok I think I can jump in on this. I too am considering the Galliera PM. I am going to try it AGAIN tomorrow to make sure. I am 41 with 3 kids. (1 is an adult). I understand you in regards to buying smart. I love satchels and the speedy but it may not be practical for me. I can tell you that I have tried the Galliera on and it is sooooo soft. Fits very comfortable on the shoulder. I agree with the others, as long as you are not carrying alot of heavy items, you will be fine. It is a beautiful bag. For me it is between that one and the Palermo PM, I should be deciding tomorrow. Let us know when you make a purchase.
Finally, now I will ask everyone. What does DH mean?