I have a smoother leather Rocco, and I'm honestly not a huge fan of it on this silhouette compared to the bubbly leather, so that lets the pale gold out for me on that basis. I do like the pale gold HW, though. Both are equally nice, so it's really personal preference. I haven't had problems with either HW version, but I rarely carry any of mine due to rotating so much.
One of my main concern with the hw is the wear. Do you think because the pale gold is shiny that it would show wear more than the antique brass? Also, when I carry the bag, the pale gold is heavier than the antique brass. But maybe I'm just imagining it.