2020 resolution - shopping my own bag and wallet collection. Any one else?

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Warning - purse nerd alert, long post
December Update and 2019 Year End Stats
  • Carried 16 bags in December 2019
  • Read 39 books in 2019
  • Maintained 1 in 1 out policy on bags in 2019
Dec Stats
Bags - 0 in, 0 out
SLGs - 0 in, 0 out

2019 Year End Stats
Bags - 2 in, 2 out
SLGs - 3 in, 4 out

2019 Top 11 Bags, by Usage
  1. Hermes Evelyne III PM, Etoupe - 40
  2. Gucci Soho Disco, Black - 37
  3. Chanel Reissue 226, Black - 36
  4. Hermes Bolide 31, Etain - 35
  5. Chanel Reissue 226, Red - 25
  6. Chanel Coco (Lizard) Handle Small, Burgundy - 24
  7. Chanel Reissue Camera bag, Silver Metallic - 22
  8. Hermes Garden Party 36, Rouge H - 21
  9. Hermes So Kelly Eclat 22, Bleu Sapphire/Bleu Izmir - 21
  10. Chanel WOC, black - 21
  11. Longchamp Le Pliage, Gun Metal - 21
2019 Colours, by Usage
  1. Black - 123
  2. Grey/Silver - 118
  3. Red/Burgundy - 84
  4. Blue - 36
Goals and Habits

The guiding principles I declared back in the 2017 version of this thread,
2017 Goals/Habits
I created a general set of goals for my bags/SLGs and overall closet. No planned acquisitions, no ban, enjoy what I have, mindful purchases are okay.
  • Edit my belongings to what I love, use or find beautiful
  • Use and enjoy with gratitude what I choose to keep, shop my closet (I think I got this from someone on this thread, @bakeacookie, was it you?)
  • Reduce my possessions, I have enough
  • Be selective, thoughtful and mindful for things I purchase
  • 30 day delayed gratification list
  • 1 in 1 or more out
2020 Goals/Habits
  • Practice a “no settling” philosophy, per @Annabel Lee and @papertiger
  • Edit my belongings to what I love, use and find beautiful
  • Use and enjoy what I choose to keep, shop my closet
  • Reduce my possessions, I have enough
  • Be selective, thoughtful and mindful for things I purchase
  • Continue tracking my wears of bags (since 2014), clothing, shoes and jewelry (since 2015)
  • Continue to put perceived wants on a 30 Day Delayed Gratification List
  • Continue practicing a 1 in 1 or more out policy
  • Review and assess wardrobe adds (bags, SLGs, jewelry, clothing and shoes) throughout the year and at year end for frequency of use (were they good purchases or was I wearing sales goggles?)
  • Remember this quote which I have at the top of my 30 Day Delayed Gratification List, “Do not spoil what you have by desiring what you have not; remember that what you now have was once among the things you only hoped for” - Epicurus or as @diane278 simply stated on her thread, “Remember when you wanted what you currently have.”
The above methods may not work for everyone, they work for me at this stage of life. My goal is to have a well edited collection of bags that work for my lifestyle, that I love and use regularly. I use and enjoy with gratitude what I choose to keep and continue shopping my closet.

Happy new year to my pocket friends and good luck with all of your 2020 goals!
This is so thoughtful and so wise. I hope to emulate many of your 2020 goals. Thank you for sharing!
 
Warning - purse nerd alert, long post
December Update and 2019 Year End Stats
  • Carried 16 bags in December 2019
  • Read 39 books in 2019
  • Maintained 1 in 1 out policy on bags in 2019
Dec Stats
Bags - 0 in, 0 out
SLGs - 0 in, 0 out

2019 Year End Stats
Bags - 2 in, 2 out
SLGs - 3 in, 4 out

2019 Top 11 Bags, by Usage
  1. Hermes Evelyne III PM, Etoupe - 40
  2. Gucci Soho Disco, Black - 37
  3. Chanel Reissue 226, Black - 36
  4. Hermes Bolide 31, Etain - 35
  5. Chanel Reissue 226, Red - 25
  6. Chanel Coco (Lizard) Handle Small, Burgundy - 24
  7. Chanel Reissue Camera bag, Silver Metallic - 22
  8. Hermes Garden Party 36, Rouge H - 21
  9. Hermes So Kelly Eclat 22, Bleu Sapphire/Bleu Izmir - 21
  10. Chanel WOC, black - 21
  11. Longchamp Le Pliage, Gun Metal - 21
2019 Colours, by Usage
  1. Black - 123
  2. Grey/Silver - 118
  3. Red/Burgundy - 84
  4. Blue - 36
Goals and Habits

The guiding principles I declared back in the 2017 version of this thread,
2017 Goals/Habits
I created a general set of goals for my bags/SLGs and overall closet. No planned acquisitions, no ban, enjoy what I have, mindful purchases are okay.
  • Edit my belongings to what I love, use or find beautiful
  • Use and enjoy with gratitude what I choose to keep, shop my closet (I think I got this from someone on this thread, @bakeacookie, was it you?)
  • Reduce my possessions, I have enough
  • Be selective, thoughtful and mindful for things I purchase
  • 30 day delayed gratification list
  • 1 in 1 or more out
2020 Goals/Habits
  • Practice a “no settling” philosophy, per @Annabel Lee and @papertiger
  • Edit my belongings to what I love, use and find beautiful
  • Use and enjoy what I choose to keep, shop my closet
  • Reduce my possessions, I have enough
  • Be selective, thoughtful and mindful for things I purchase
  • Continue tracking my wears of bags (since 2014), clothing, shoes and jewelry (since 2015)
  • Continue to put perceived wants on a 30 Day Delayed Gratification List
  • Continue practicing a 1 in 1 or more out policy
  • Review and assess wardrobe adds (bags, SLGs, jewelry, clothing and shoes) throughout the year and at year end for frequency of use (were they good purchases or was I wearing sales goggles?)
  • Remember this quote which I have at the top of my 30 Day Delayed Gratification List, “Do not spoil what you have by desiring what you have not; remember that what you now have was once among the things you only hoped for” - Epicurus or as @diane278 simply stated on her thread, “Remember when you wanted what you currently have.”
The above methods may not work for everyone, they work for me at this stage of life. My goal is to have a well edited collection of bags that work for my lifestyle, that I love and use regularly. I use and enjoy with gratitude what I choose to keep and continue shopping my closet.

Happy new year to my pocket friends and good luck with all of your 2020 goals!
You are my kind of nerd. I love this. I never analyzed my usage by color but I can easily check my tick marks as I list them by color groups. It is a great idea.
 
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Yes, exactly.

I've been doing a 10-session course (part of an app I've been using) that is about finding balance in one's life. In the session I listened to yesterday, the instructor suggested looking for things in our lives that bring us joy. But the examples she gave were teensy little things, like our first cup of coffee in the morning! And when I created my list, I looked back over it and realized that "buying this" and "owning that" where NOWHERE on the list!
Awesome! Can you please PM me about this app? EDIT: thanks for sharing and I will check it out.
 
Warning - purse nerd alert, long post
December Update and 2019 Year End Stats
  • Carried 16 bags in December 2019
  • Read 39 books in 2019
  • Maintained 1 in 1 out policy on bags in 2019
Dec Stats
Bags - 0 in, 0 out
SLGs - 0 in, 0 out

2019 Year End Stats
Bags - 2 in, 2 out
SLGs - 3 in, 4 out

2019 Top 11 Bags, by Usage
  1. Hermes Evelyne III PM, Etoupe - 40
  2. Gucci Soho Disco, Black - 37
  3. Chanel Reissue 226, Black - 36
  4. Hermes Bolide 31, Etain - 35
  5. Chanel Reissue 226, Red - 25
  6. Chanel Coco (Lizard) Handle Small, Burgundy - 24
  7. Chanel Reissue Camera bag, Silver Metallic - 22
  8. Hermes Garden Party 36, Rouge H - 21
  9. Hermes So Kelly Eclat 22, Bleu Sapphire/Bleu Izmir - 21
  10. Chanel WOC, black - 21
  11. Longchamp Le Pliage, Gun Metal - 21
2019 Colours, by Usage
  1. Black - 123
  2. Grey/Silver - 118
  3. Red/Burgundy - 84
  4. Blue - 36
Goals and Habits

The guiding principles I declared back in the 2017 version of this thread,
2017 Goals/Habits
I created a general set of goals for my bags/SLGs and overall closet. No planned acquisitions, no ban, enjoy what I have, mindful purchases are okay.
  • Edit my belongings to what I love, use or find beautiful
  • Use and enjoy with gratitude what I choose to keep, shop my closet (I think I got this from someone on this thread, @bakeacookie, was it you?)
  • Reduce my possessions, I have enough
  • Be selective, thoughtful and mindful for things I purchase
  • 30 day delayed gratification list
  • 1 in 1 or more out
2020 Goals/Habits
  • Practice a “no settling” philosophy, per @Annabel Lee and @papertiger
  • Edit my belongings to what I love, use and find beautiful
  • Use and enjoy what I choose to keep, shop my closet
  • Reduce my possessions, I have enough
  • Be selective, thoughtful and mindful for things I purchase
  • Continue tracking my wears of bags (since 2014), clothing, shoes and jewelry (since 2015)
  • Continue to put perceived wants on a 30 Day Delayed Gratification List
  • Continue practicing a 1 in 1 or more out policy
  • Review and assess wardrobe adds (bags, SLGs, jewelry, clothing and shoes) throughout the year and at year end for frequency of use (were they good purchases or was I wearing sales goggles?)
  • Remember this quote which I have at the top of my 30 Day Delayed Gratification List, “Do not spoil what you have by desiring what you have not; remember that what you now have was once among the things you only hoped for” - Epicurus or as @diane278 simply stated on her thread, “Remember when you wanted what you currently have.”
The above methods may not work for everyone, they work for me at this stage of life. My goal is to have a well edited collection of bags that work for my lifestyle, that I love and use regularly. I use and enjoy with gratitude what I choose to keep and continue shopping my closet.

Happy new year to my pocket friends and good luck with all of your 2020 goals!
Great job and post! You post, stats, tracking are what I aspire to!
Which reminds me to start tracking since we are already into Jan! Do you find the jewelry and shoes tracking helpful? I have paired down my jewelry a lot in 2019 to very select number of high end pieces, and I know I use what I have. But shoes...for sure I don’t use my shoes and I buy too many...
 
@More bags - What a great idea to keep track of what you use. Really shows preferences and what works best to help guide decision-making!

For the past few years I’ve been keeping an annual list of what I think I “need” (have to use quotes because we any of us really “need” it?) with my discretionary spending budget and edit it as purchases are made. But More bags’ tracking takes this much further! I love it - thanks for sharing!
 
Warning - purse nerd alert, long post
December Update and 2019 Year End Stats
  • Carried 16 bags in December 2019
  • Read 39 books in 2019
  • Maintained 1 in 1 out policy on bags in 2019
Dec Stats
Bags - 0 in, 0 out
SLGs - 0 in, 0 out

2019 Year End Stats
Bags - 2 in, 2 out
SLGs - 3 in, 4 out

2019 Top 11 Bags, by Usage
  1. Hermes Evelyne III PM, Etoupe - 40
  2. Gucci Soho Disco, Black - 37
  3. Chanel Reissue 226, Black - 36
  4. Hermes Bolide 31, Etain - 35
  5. Chanel Reissue 226, Red - 25
  6. Chanel Coco (Lizard) Handle Small, Burgundy - 24
  7. Chanel Reissue Camera bag, Silver Metallic - 22
  8. Hermes Garden Party 36, Rouge H - 21
  9. Hermes So Kelly Eclat 22, Bleu Sapphire/Bleu Izmir - 21
  10. Chanel WOC, black - 21
  11. Longchamp Le Pliage, Gun Metal - 21
2019 Colours, by Usage
  1. Black - 123
  2. Grey/Silver - 118
  3. Red/Burgundy - 84
  4. Blue - 36
Goals and Habits

The guiding principles I declared back in the 2017 version of this thread,
2017 Goals/Habits
I created a general set of goals for my bags/SLGs and overall closet. No planned acquisitions, no ban, enjoy what I have, mindful purchases are okay.
  • Edit my belongings to what I love, use or find beautiful
  • Use and enjoy with gratitude what I choose to keep, shop my closet (I think I got this from someone on this thread, @bakeacookie, was it you?)
  • Reduce my possessions, I have enough
  • Be selective, thoughtful and mindful for things I purchase
  • 30 day delayed gratification list
  • 1 in 1 or more out
2020 Goals/Habits
  • Practice a “no settling” philosophy, per @Annabel Lee and @papertiger
  • Edit my belongings to what I love, use and find beautiful
  • Use and enjoy what I choose to keep, shop my closet
  • Reduce my possessions, I have enough
  • Be selective, thoughtful and mindful for things I purchase
  • Continue tracking my wears of bags (since 2014), clothing, shoes and jewelry (since 2015)
  • Continue to put perceived wants on a 30 Day Delayed Gratification List
  • Continue practicing a 1 in 1 or more out policy
  • Review and assess wardrobe adds (bags, SLGs, jewelry, clothing and shoes) throughout the year and at year end for frequency of use (were they good purchases or was I wearing sales goggles?)
  • Remember this quote which I have at the top of my 30 Day Delayed Gratification List, “Do not spoil what you have by desiring what you have not; remember that what you now have was once among the things you only hoped for” - Epicurus or as @diane278 simply stated on her thread, “Remember when you wanted what you currently have.”
The above methods may not work for everyone, they work for me at this stage of life. My goal is to have a well edited collection of bags that work for my lifestyle, that I love and use regularly. I use and enjoy with gratitude what I choose to keep and continue shopping my closet.

Happy new year to my pocket friends and good luck with all of your 2020 goals!
What an excellent post - I hope you don’t mind that I’ve taken a screen shot and I’m going to use it as my lock screen so that i see it every day!
These are fabulous goals/habits.
@Cookiefiend do I recall you mentioned in the 2019 thread that you released your Mulberry Blossom tote? Good job in editing your collection - I loved the colour of that bag.
I did let it go - like you, I loved the color and the leather was just incredible, but the shoulder drop was just too short for comfortable carrying. I was always on the fence about it, but the last time I carried it (I think in October or November?) I knew it was time. I’m grateful it sold and I hope the new owner loves it.
 
I love your message about being “less frantic” and trying to “power down a few notches.” That really resonates with me. But it sounds like your purchases celebrated wonderful milestones and travel last year and that is great! I, too, set goals that I absolutely smashed quite early on. I want to make 2020 a better year!
Sounds as though we are kindred spirits - we can keep each other company this year 2020 as we try to do better.
The intention is there but the spirit is easily distracted - at least my spirit is.
We will do better. We have a little pact now :-)
 
I hear you! I'm pretty good about cleaning things out that I don't use anymore, but we moved from a small house to a big one, and with so much closet space, it's really easy to get carried away and keep ALLTHETHINGS. This is not the best approach to keeping a workable wardrobe, and my issue now is inadvertently buying things that potentially steal wears from others. I've been tracking wears on everything in my closet, which really helps.


FWIW, I think your shopping process is one a lot of people share. I really appreciate your openness on it.

Years ago we moved from a huge house to a smaller one. Our closets were full as soon as we moved in. The kids have moved out, and I have expanded into their rooms. One is a craft/sewing room, one is used for storage, and the other is my purse room. Next month they are all coming to visit at the same time, and I have to clean out all these rooms and find space, at least temporarily, for all the stuff I put in their rooms, as well as the garage which is half full of boxes for my sales.

Some of the stuff that I have stored is stuff I kept from their childhoods. I didn't want to throw their things away without giving them a chance to see if they wanted it.

Yes I was the same when we moved to a bigger house, we've loads of cupboards (and a walk in attic ) but beware they soon fill up :giggle: The more you have, the more "stuff" you keep! When my son moved out, I expanded even more, all our many cupboards, drawers, wardrobes and attic are full :wtf: I've been busy trying to clear them for the past two years so we can downsize now, :lol: what we have is way too big for the two of us, time consuming to keep clean, look after and costly to run. It's funny how quickly you seem to go from wanting more space to less and you just don't see it coming, even the garden's is way too big now.

We've not entertained for years, my preference is to go out now so what would suit us well is a studio apartment with a small outside patio area and a beach opposite :hbeat: I'm working on it!

I love my bags but I've been trying to reduce them to a workable collection. I'm down to 20 now (from a lot more) which for some is not many and others a lot..........it's personal to each of us. I don't use 20 now I'm not employed and there are some I've never used.which definitely need to go but it's hard!

I've not counted my scarves :blush: but planning to! I've sold a few last year but not many.

Purses and wallets I've almost got under control. I sold off several large ones last year as I travel much lighter as I walk most places now. I purchased three small coin/card wallets and they're ideal as fit into my smaller cross body bags.

I'm planning to work out my stats for last year. It's good to have a place to declare them.......then hopefully I can look back on my progress :biggrin:

As I've got older "less stuff and more journeys" is what I'm all about and where I'm going
 

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Warning - purse nerd alert, long post
December Update and 2019 Year End Stats
  • Carried 16 bags in December 2019
  • Read 39 books in 2019
  • Maintained 1 in 1 out policy on bags in 2019
Dec Stats
Bags - 0 in, 0 out
SLGs - 0 in, 0 out

2019 Year End Stats
Bags - 2 in, 2 out
SLGs - 3 in, 4 out

2019 Top 11 Bags, by Usage
  1. Hermes Evelyne III PM, Etoupe - 40
  2. Gucci Soho Disco, Black - 37
  3. Chanel Reissue 226, Black - 36
  4. Hermes Bolide 31, Etain - 35
  5. Chanel Reissue 226, Red - 25
  6. Chanel Coco (Lizard) Handle Small, Burgundy - 24
  7. Chanel Reissue Camera bag, Silver Metallic - 22
  8. Hermes Garden Party 36, Rouge H - 21
  9. Hermes So Kelly Eclat 22, Bleu Sapphire/Bleu Izmir - 21
  10. Chanel WOC, black - 21
  11. Longchamp Le Pliage, Gun Metal - 21
2019 Colours, by Usage
  1. Black - 123
  2. Grey/Silver - 118
  3. Red/Burgundy - 84
  4. Blue - 36
Goals and Habits

The guiding principles I declared back in the 2017 version of this thread,
2017 Goals/Habits
I created a general set of goals for my bags/SLGs and overall closet. No planned acquisitions, no ban, enjoy what I have, mindful purchases are okay.
  • Edit my belongings to what I love, use or find beautiful
  • Use and enjoy with gratitude what I choose to keep, shop my closet (I think I got this from someone on this thread, @bakeacookie, was it you?)
  • Reduce my possessions, I have enough
  • Be selective, thoughtful and mindful for things I purchase
  • 30 day delayed gratification list
  • 1 in 1 or more out
2020 Goals/Habits
  • Practice a “no settling” philosophy, per @Annabel Lee and @papertiger
  • Edit my belongings to what I love, use and find beautiful
  • Use and enjoy what I choose to keep, shop my closet
  • Reduce my possessions, I have enough
  • Be selective, thoughtful and mindful for things I purchase
  • Continue tracking my wears of bags (since 2014), clothing, shoes and jewelry (since 2015)
  • Continue to put perceived wants on a 30 Day Delayed Gratification List
  • Continue practicing a 1 in 1 or more out policy
  • Review and assess wardrobe adds (bags, SLGs, jewelry, clothing and shoes) throughout the year and at year end for frequency of use (were they good purchases or was I wearing sales goggles?)
  • Remember this quote which I have at the top of my 30 Day Delayed Gratification List, “Do not spoil what you have by desiring what you have not; remember that what you now have was once among the things you only hoped for” - Epicurus or as @diane278 simply stated on her thread, “Remember when you wanted what you currently have.”
The above methods may not work for everyone, they work for me at this stage of life. My goal is to have a well edited collection of bags that work for my lifestyle, that I love and use regularly. I use and enjoy with gratitude what I choose to keep and continue shopping my closet.

Happy new year to my pocket friends and good luck with all of your 2020 goals!

This is amazing, what a fantastic post.............I feel inspired and in awe. I would like to "borrow" some of your ideas, I feel I can do better :hugs:
 
@Mulberrygal - “As I've got older "less stuff and more journeys" is what I'm all about and where I'm going.” This is so true, and valuable!

Over the past five years my DH and I quit work, moved from a 3,600 sq ft house to a 1,200 sq ft one-bedroom, adopted a rescue pup, and have spent half of the year traveling in a small RV, spending most of the winter in Baja, Mexico. It’s meant getting rid of a lot of stuff and being super-careful about new purchases, and find I’m finally starting to learn some patience about not going after every pretty thing I see. It’s still tough, though, and I’m glad for this thread!
 
Sounds as though we are kindred spirits - we can keep each other company this year 2020 as we try to do better.
The intention is there but the spirit is easily distracted - at least my spirit is.
We will do better. We have a little pact now :-)
I would love to have you as an accountability partner in 2020! I do far better with accountability partners in everything in life. Wonderful to find my sister spirit in you @TankerToad!
 
Warning - purse nerd alert, long post
December Update and 2019 Year End Stats
  • Carried 16 bags in December 2019
  • Read 39 books in 2019
  • Maintained 1 in 1 out policy on bags in 2019
Dec Stats
Bags - 0 in, 0 out
SLGs - 0 in, 0 out

2019 Year End Stats
Bags - 2 in, 2 out
SLGs - 3 in, 4 out

2019 Top 11 Bags, by Usage
  1. Hermes Evelyne III PM, Etoupe - 40
  2. Gucci Soho Disco, Black - 37
  3. Chanel Reissue 226, Black - 36
  4. Hermes Bolide 31, Etain - 35
  5. Chanel Reissue 226, Red - 25
  6. Chanel Coco (Lizard) Handle Small, Burgundy - 24
  7. Chanel Reissue Camera bag, Silver Metallic - 22
  8. Hermes Garden Party 36, Rouge H - 21
  9. Hermes So Kelly Eclat 22, Bleu Sapphire/Bleu Izmir - 21
  10. Chanel WOC, black - 21
  11. Longchamp Le Pliage, Gun Metal - 21
2019 Colours, by Usage
  1. Black - 123
  2. Grey/Silver - 118
  3. Red/Burgundy - 84
  4. Blue - 36
Goals and Habits

The guiding principles I declared back in the 2017 version of this thread,
2017 Goals/Habits
I created a general set of goals for my bags/SLGs and overall closet. No planned acquisitions, no ban, enjoy what I have, mindful purchases are okay.
  • Edit my belongings to what I love, use or find beautiful
  • Use and enjoy with gratitude what I choose to keep, shop my closet (I think I got this from someone on this thread, @bakeacookie, was it you?)
  • Reduce my possessions, I have enough
  • Be selective, thoughtful and mindful for things I purchase
  • 30 day delayed gratification list
  • 1 in 1 or more out
2020 Goals/Habits
  • Practice a “no settling” philosophy, per @Annabel Lee and @papertiger
  • Edit my belongings to what I love, use and find beautiful
  • Use and enjoy what I choose to keep, shop my closet
  • Reduce my possessions, I have enough
  • Be selective, thoughtful and mindful for things I purchase
  • Continue tracking my wears of bags (since 2014), clothing, shoes and jewelry (since 2015)
  • Continue to put perceived wants on a 30 Day Delayed Gratification List
  • Continue practicing a 1 in 1 or more out policy
  • Review and assess wardrobe adds (bags, SLGs, jewelry, clothing and shoes) throughout the year and at year end for frequency of use (were they good purchases or was I wearing sales goggles?)
  • Remember this quote which I have at the top of my 30 Day Delayed Gratification List, “Do not spoil what you have by desiring what you have not; remember that what you now have was once among the things you only hoped for” - Epicurus or as @diane278 simply stated on her thread, “Remember when you wanted what you currently have.”
The above methods may not work for everyone, they work for me at this stage of life. My goal is to have a well edited collection of bags that work for my lifestyle, that I love and use regularly. I use and enjoy with gratitude what I choose to keep and continue shopping my closet.

Happy new year to my pocket friends and good luck with all of your 2020 goals!
@More bags I’m starting a 30 Day Delayed Gratification List. Thank you for the excellent idea.
 
Thanks for continuing the thread eggtartapproved. Best wishes on your 2020 no spend year!


Congratulations on the arrival of your baby girl and welcome back!


Great job on achieving your 2019 goals Sparkle!


Congratulations on being a newish mom, so much growth for both mom and baby in the first year! The charity jar idea is interesting. :yes:


Great job on rotating your bags - you have beautiful bags tenKrat. I am nodding about the books, in fact, that is my handle on a book site, read more books! :drinks: Please feel free to share any good titles you come across throughout the year.
I recommend “The Good Lord Bird” by James McBride. Finishing it up right now. It’s about the adventures of John Brown, the abolitionist, and his runaway slave companion named Onion who’s disguised as a girl. Some parts are quite hilarious.

Edit: I’ll PM you re: future recommendations to avoid hijacking this thread.
 
@Mulberrygal - “As I've got older "less stuff and more journeys" is what I'm all about and where I'm going.” This is so true, and valuable!

Over the past five years my DH and I quit work, moved from a 3,600 sq ft house to a 1,200 sq ft one-bedroom, adopted a rescue pup, and have spent half of the year traveling in a small RV, spending most of the winter in Baja, Mexico. It’s meant getting rid of a lot of stuff and being super-careful about new purchases, and find I’m finally starting to learn some patience about not going after every pretty thing I see. It’s still tough, though, and I’m glad for this thread!
Wow good for you. Love the idea of spending winter in a hot place.
My husband and I are drastically downsizing right now, but only temporarily and our family size is not shrinking anytime soon (3 young kids). So lots of stuff going into storage. I am looking forward to spending more time doing experiences vs. Doing stuff for our house. Houses take up so much time to maintain. Also considering pairing down a lot of our personal items to try and live with less longer term despite having the space. Taking a hard look at my purses and shoes. I am down to 18 purses (if you ignore the one at consignment), which feels pretty low but wondering if I can cut a few more.
 
@Mulberrygal - “As I've got older "less stuff and more journeys" is what I'm all about and where I'm going.” This is so true, and valuable!

Over the past five years my DH and I quit work, moved from a 3,600 sq ft house to a 1,200 sq ft one-bedroom, adopted a rescue pup, and have spent half of the year traveling in a small RV, spending most of the winter in Baja, Mexico. It’s meant getting rid of a lot of stuff and being super-careful about new purchases, and find I’m finally starting to learn some patience about not going after every pretty thing I see. It’s still tough, though, and I’m glad for this thread!
ENVIOUS!!! Good for you!
 
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