2020 resolution - shopping my own bag and wallet collection. Any one else?

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Just found the 2021 thread has started so now seems like the time to share my 2020 stats:

Pre 2020 - 19 bags
4 in 0 out - 2 gifts, 2 practical for pandemic
End 2020 - 23 bags

Bag carries:
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I think in a normal year this would have looked a lot different but it was my first year of keeping such a record so I can’t compare. I assume there would be more pink from the summer. My Coach Crosby and Western Nomad are both pinks and hardly got carried at all. Also my event/evening bags, the Mulberry Lily’s and Mini Amberley plus my TeaRose Dinky suffered from there being no events!

However, my Mulberry Mini Cara, Coach Signature Canvas tote and two nylon Kate Spade bags have been great workhorses this year!
This is fantastic! I love how you can see the colors used most frequently.
 
Does she have any bags in her collection that you want? You might offer to trade, saying "I like this bag, but I REALLY LOVE that [whatever] of yours." I don't have a sister so this might be totally wrong, sorry, LOL.
That’s a great idea but she likes bag that are way bigger than I like and that are more expensive than the little crossbody. I listed it.
 
@papertiger A moderator question for you, if you don't mind. Would it be better to have these 'vote for a bag' posts in the 2021 thread? Do you think it's worth it for you to move these last few posts we've made across?
I initially thought it more fitting in here (final 2020 bags on the final pages of the 2020 thread) but now I'm thinking it may gain more traction there. It's your call, I'm just thinking aloud. :smile:

Also, go on then! Join in with a couple of options from your collection and let us vote! :biggrin:

All suggestions:

This thread is still relevant for those wanting to leave info/updates tied-up in 2020 so it's still functional and important.

This thread will close in 2021 and/or be unpinned, so my advice to all participating in the 'vote which handbag game' (which, BTW, could be a whole new thread idea) is:

2020: For those doing the asking, to confine it to bags that they want to wear within the last few days of 2020 (this may be tied into Dec's challenge after all). For those voting, naturally, make sure you vote on this thread.

2021: For those wanting vote-advice on bags going forward into Jan and beyond, literally just round the corner, use the new thread. Same with voting.

For this reason, it's more important (right now) to know when and where you're going before asking, rather than more general advise with possibles e.g. ' which for work?' or 'which with this outfit?' type questions.

If they get mixed-up, either report your own post(s) where an Admin or Mod will see it. Or just forget about it, reminding the rest of the regs if need be.
 
Does she have any bags in her collection that you want? You might offer to trade, saying "I like this bag, but I REALLY LOVE that [whatever] of yours." I don't have a sister so this might be totally wrong, sorry, LOL.

You'd be a very level-headed sister.

My sister to me (and everyone she meets for 1 month): "What on-earth were you thinking? Seriously? You think that's my style? Take it back and just give me the money."

Me to my sister: "Thank you for your generous present" - sticks it in a draw and brings it out once a year for 4 years when meeting sister alone. Year 5 - gone. When asked where the bag is say "I wore it out".

My sister once gave me a Birkin looky-likey. Non-leather, sangles stitched to the front of the bag with a zip top. Had to pretend I lost it in a house move. Another time she gave me what was a very nice French Connection-does-BV little shoulder bag in woven red suede, strong on the fringing. Too small and girly. See 'me to me sister' above for clues. I wore it 4 times in 5 years and then sold it to concession. Y.5 she asked if she could borrow it :panic: - which is really off coz she hates red apart from lipstick, I had to say I wore it out.

Good luck @BowieFan1971 !!!!

The problem with friends and family is they know we love bags, the bigger problem is they don't always let us choose.
 
You'd be a very level-headed sister.

My sister to me (and everyone she meets for 1 month): "What on-earth were you thinking? Seriously? You think that's my style? Take it back and just give me the money."

Me to my sister: "Thank you for your generous present" - sticks it in a draw and brings it out once a year for 4 years when meeting sister alone. Year 5 - gone. When asked where the bag is say "I wore it out".

My sister once gave me a Birkin looky-likey. Non-leather, sangles stitched to the front of the bag with a zip top. Had to pretend I lost it in a house move. Another time she gave me what was a very nice French Connection-does-BV little shoulder bag in woven red suede, strong on the fringing. Too small and girly. See 'me to me sister' above for clues. I wore it 4 times in 5 years and then sold it to concession. Y.5 she asked if she could borrow it :panic: - which is really off coz she hates red apart from lipstick, I had to say I wore it out.

Good luck @BowieFan1971 !!!!

The problem with friends and family is they know we love bags, the bigger problem is they don't always let us choose.
I never thought of “I wore it out.” Hmmmm...I hate having to shuffle it around in the meantime, though. We’ll see if it sells....
 
You'd be a very level-headed sister.

My sister to me (and everyone she meets for 1 month): "What on-earth were you thinking? Seriously? You think that's my style? Take it back and just give me the money."

Me to my sister: "Thank you for your generous present" - sticks it in a draw and brings it out once a year for 4 years when meeting sister alone. Year 5 - gone. When asked where the bag is say "I wore it out".

My sister once gave me a Birkin looky-likey. Non-leather, sangles stitched to the front of the bag with a zip top. Had to pretend I lost it in a house move. Another time she gave me what was a very nice French Connection-does-BV little shoulder bag in woven red suede, strong on the fringing. Too small and girly. See 'me to me sister' above for clues. I wore it 4 times in 5 years and then sold it to concession. Y.5 she asked if she could borrow it :panic: - which is really off coz she hates red apart from lipstick, I had to say I wore it out.

Good luck @BowieFan1971 !!!!

The problem with friends and family is they know we love bags, the bigger problem is they don't always let us choose.
I do it very similar to you though usually in a shorter time period. The only exception would be a bag gift from my daughter. I don’t wear it often but she tried hard and bought it in Florence for me. It is a light taupe suede that is good for summer, but since I rarely tan does not look great on me. That stays. One day if it gets dirty I will dye it to a color that works better for me.
 
Great idea so on a similar note - I’m going to an outdoor lightshow with my family tomorrow evening. It’s the only thing that’s survived lockdown and stayed on! It will be cold but hopefully stay dry (no guarantee!) so I’ll be wearing a big coat, jeans and warm boots.

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I hate how chains tend to damage coats so I now refuse to wear these two together. So unless you carry it underneath your coat (or said coat is undestructible) I would rule out the Lily.
Of the other 3, not sure, but leaning towards the blue if you are wearing blue jeans.

I love the unique shape and it's one of my forever bags. It's by Sandro. They release some iteration of it pretty much every season or 2.

Ah yes, a friend of mine has it in burgundy. Very cute.
 
I like them all and think they all work! Probably I’d go for the one on the top right because of the hardware but I like them all! Let us know which you pick....

Great idea so on a similar note - I’m going to an outdoor lightshow with my family tomorrow evening. It’s the only thing that’s survived lockdown and stayed on! It will be cold but hopefully stay dry (no guarantee!) so I’ll be wearing a big coat, jeans and warm boots.

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Top left...looks the most casual
 
I like them all and think they all work! Probably I’d go for the one on the top right because of the hardware but I like them all! Let us know which you pick....

Great idea so on a similar note - I’m going to an outdoor lightshow with my family tomorrow evening. It’s the only thing that’s survived lockdown and stayed on! It will be cold but hopefully stay dry (no guarantee!) so I’ll be wearing a big coat, jeans and warm boots.

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The quilted one. It makes me think of staying warm.
 
Thanks very much but all my recording ideas were inspired by what I saw you do @More bags! The spreadsheet for this chart records full bag details and tracks exact usage by month (became blocks of months due to lack of use), purchase price and cost per wear. I’ve enjoy doing it and got it set up for next year already.
I’m glad it works for you and you’ve made it your own @Katinahat! I like your chart and colours!
 
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