+1 on getting back to my regular routine as much as possible. Because of the shelter in place order and the recovery / pain from my foot, I had “devolved” into a pretty low place for me. PJ’s, ponytail, no makeup and irritable attitude.I’m so sorry about all that you’re feeling. It’s truly a time of many emotions and much stress and overwhelm.
Is there anything that always cheers you up or at least pulls you out of your mind, whether it be reading, watching a movie, taking a bath, exercising, meditating, napping, baking a dessert? I wish you were able to find something that could help even a little bit! I was in the exact same spot about a month ago, or less, and building my morning routine saved me. Wake up, workout, shower, do my new skincare routine, put on normal clothes during the week, and dress my daughter in normal clothes as well. Without one of these steps, my mental state would be in the same place. I was having a hard time getting out of bed during the day unless my daughter needed me, and was extremely irritable and sad, even depressed. This has lifted my spirits immensely. I’ve also purchased a few new pairs of shoes since the very beginning of this thing, and the latest two should be arriving soon! I will share them here.
I hope you can find something that will boost your cheer!

Thank you, thank you, thank you! It’s been ELEVEN WEEKS on crutches, in a walking boot and then bandaged in a special shoe. So, it’s effectively been 11 weeks I’ve been on close to house arrest. I still have pain and can’t get wear heels or dance (he said it will be another 3 months for that) but, I am reeeeaaally ready to get out of my house!!!I’m happy to hear the great news, at least!! YAY for no more bandages!
I would bet that once your baby (and any future babies) are middle school aged you will rediscover your B/K bags and wear them like crazy. Life stage has a lot to do with wardrobe choices.Just got myself caught up here! We’ve had a busy first half of the week and a nice and also tiring weekend that did not feel any bit more restful or related than the week. Mostly because we have to entertain a baby the whole time!
I have been thinking about @Sparkletastic question about bags that we love but don’t fit our aesthetic. I have to say that my Kelly and Birkin bags are probably the ones I would put in this category! My Chanel 19 and mini Roulis bags fit my aesthetic in that they’re all fairly easy and worry free. I feel fussy and a bit high maintenance when I wear my B/K bags that I have to watch out for what they’re rubbing against, bumping on, etc. They are my most beautiful bags but are not very “me.” I wonder what that means about my collection!!
I think the Chanel black square mini with adjustable strap would have been “me” simply because it would have been so easy to wear. But now they’re sold out everywhere and I refuse to purchase it full price. I’ve found a couple places recently that have done 10% off Chanel but this bag was already long gone.
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