I’m happy to hear the great news, at least!! YAY for no more bandages!I was out today for a follow up on my foot surgery. When I arrived, they had a sign on the door telling us not to come in but to call and check in. Then they would call when the doctor was ready to see us. So, we could wait in the hall or in our cars. I think that was a great system. (And, good news. No more bandages! Whoop!)
From there I had to go to WalMart to pick up things he told me I needed (oddly, one of them was styrofoam cups) to aid in my recovery. I was extremely frustrated because there was no sanitizer at the door for hands or carts. And, people weren’t keeping any distance.
The governor of my state has said he is going to repeal most of the social distancing requirements to help revive the state economy. In contrast, my politicians in my home state are calling for extended and increased measures.
I don’t think anyone knows what we should do and most are making this up as we go. I think about how a few weeks ago most media was saying masks were of no help or were even a problem because it kept people touching their faces. Now, the CDC (US) recommends we do wear masks. It’s frustrating.
Meanwhile, in lighter news. I’ve only worn two bags since all this started. My bag wear stats are going to be pure awful this year.
2020 resolution - shopping my own bag and wallet collection. Any one else?
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Good for you and you are sweet to find such a good way to use the funds!
Thank you for sharing and coming to stand up for our @cowgirlsboots. I just wanted to say that I admire and respect how empowered you are and steadfast in your opinions and standing up for others. I will try to be just a fraction as brave as you are. It’s hard for me to stick my neck out but I’ve done it in the past (in defense of others). Truly I find it hardest to do for myself.Firstlythat people have let their guard down and are not distancing at the super market. I'm seeing a lot of the same, as are my friends all over the world. I think every country has a section of the population that is in denial.
Secondly, please don't be upset or hurt by people laughing because you are being cautious. I have a thread on here about people commenting on me, pointing and laughing at me, and I've had a boss who told me not to let him see my face in the morning because my ugliness ruins his day. I was involved in an accident and have indentations from where my face was broken as a result, and I have some burn marks on my face from an abusive ex who would put his cigarettes out on my cheeks.
Now, I realise this is nothing like your situation but I mean to show you that I'm used to people pointing and laughing rudely when I'm out and about.
The worst is that I overhear parents telling their kids to stay away from the weird looking girl- I don't think they should be teaching their kids that. I imagine what they'd say to their kids if they saw someone disabled or with an amputated limb.
I've had people in grocery stores audibly say that if they had my face they would commit suicide. It's sad that people can openly mock another human being for no reason.
I always make a point to make eye contact with those talking about me and smile the warmest smile I can. Sometimes we need to remind others we are human and we are nice. It snaps them out of their own bubble and makes them stop. Sometimes we need to remind ourselves to be gracious because they don't know any better and it's not their fault that this is their limited thinking.
In any case, they're laughing because you are being sensible and cautious whereas they are being reckless with their lives and those of others. You should hold your head up proudly and let those words roll off of you, because you are the one in the right and they will be grateful for people like you who are helping to fight the spread of covid.
Don't let anyone's ill-informed opinion and bad manners hurt your feelings.
Okay, I'm going back into my hole. Every time I post on this thread it turns into a mini-rant!
Wow, dear. I’m shocked at your father’s reaction but happy at your Mom’s. And happier still that you’ve recovered!
I was the same way!! Now I would love a mini Kelly picnic and the one I’ve been eyeing is less than $50 on Amazon! I probably won’t get in for awhile though. No reason just yet.
So cute!! Also be on the lookout for discounts because there are TONS out there. I found a store that is selling all designers (apart from Chanel) for 25% off. Perhaps you will find a wicker piece in the new market that is at an acceptable discount to you! It does seem that the preloved market is loosening as well though.
Oh how absolutely lovely, my dear!!
Wow, your work sounds intimidating but I’m sure that you do an amazing job!
Thank you so much for sharing!! We received our puzzle yesterday and I think we’re 1/3 of the way. It’s hard because we’re juggling the baby and work during the day, I FaceTime with friends, and we only have about 1.5 hours at night to watch a show and unwind before bed. Not much time for puzzling!
Just got myself caught up here! We’ve had a busy first half of the week and a nice and also tiring weekend that did not feel any bit more restful or related than the week. Mostly because we have to entertain a baby the whole time!
I have been thinking about @Sparkletastic question about bags that we love but don’t fit our aesthetic. I have to say that my Kelly and Birkin bags are probably the ones I would put in this category! My Chanel 19 and mini Roulis bags fit my aesthetic in that they’re all fairly easy and worry free. I feel fussy and a bit high maintenance when I wear my B/K bags that I have to watch out for what they’re rubbing against, bumping on, etc. They are my most beautiful bags but are not very “me.” I wonder what that means about my collection!!
I think the Chanel black square mini with adjustable strap would have been “me” simply because it would have been so easy to wear. But now they’re sold out everywhere and I refuse to purchase it full price. I’ve found a couple places recently that have done 10% off Chanel but this bag was already long gone.
I have been thinking about @Sparkletastic question about bags that we love but don’t fit our aesthetic. I have to say that my Kelly and Birkin bags are probably the ones I would put in this category! My Chanel 19 and mini Roulis bags fit my aesthetic in that they’re all fairly easy and worry free. I feel fussy and a bit high maintenance when I wear my B/K bags that I have to watch out for what they’re rubbing against, bumping on, etc. They are my most beautiful bags but are not very “me.” I wonder what that means about my collection!!
I think the Chanel black square mini with adjustable strap would have been “me” simply because it would have been so easy to wear. But now they’re sold out everywhere and I refuse to purchase it full price. I’ve found a couple places recently that have done 10% off Chanel but this bag was already long gone.
I have been keeping up with my routine and doing pretty well overall. I still wear jeans daily and some type of top I’d wear out of the house but still maintain my overall casual look. No makeup still! And enjoying my new skincare routine. I will give myself a facial treatment this weekend. We’re trying to this of ways to keep my daughter entertained and this has been my best idea yet. It’s her first birthday next week so I ordered a cake and cupcakes in the theme of her favorite book! I’m looking forward to that, particularly since it means some fancy sweet treats around the house for a couple days.
Love seeing everyone’s beautiful bags and seeing how you all are faring. Stay well, my friends!
Love seeing everyone’s beautiful bags and seeing how you all are faring. Stay well, my friends!
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It took me a moment to realize your adorable DD was sitting in a plastic tub! That is an awesome pic! Happy early first birthday to your little one and congratulations mom and dad on the big milestone!
I remember our first DS’s first birthday and thinking phew, we kept him alive for a whole year! There is so much you don’t know with a new baby and he’s the first born grandchild on both sides of the family, so we relied on our friends and family for answering questions and providing support!
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