2020 resolution - shopping my own bag and wallet collection. Any one else?

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OOH! Which languages do you speak? Did you learn them in school or organically growing up?

I’m soooo frustrated that I didn’t aggressively learn languages in school forward. It’s rough going trying to learn when NO ONE around me speaks the language. :-s I’ve thought about doing a 2 week immersion class next year. I’d hope to be at a level that would make that a good investment of time by then.

I promised myself I’ll be at least intermediate plus level in 2 “foreign” languages in 5 years. From what I’ve read, that’s an aggressive goal but, I want to talk to my Dad’s family (French) and the bulk of local non English speakers (Spanish) easily. :tup:
I love your description of your French language skills. If you can ask for couture and a glass of wine, what else could you need? :roflmfao:
LOL well @Vintage Leather has the most practical command of French! Awesome. I can get by in French and Italian. My German is horrible, although I can read poetry. I have been trying to learn Mandarin for a while, but -- as you said-- it's difficult all by yourself.
 
Ok, purse peeps, how are you doing with the social distancing / quarantine? Our metro area extended this thru May 20.

:panic::faint::panic::faint:(Live action footage of me losing it in my living room upon hearing the news)

OK, seriously. I need to think differently. I fully believe we will be on lockdown for another 3-6 months. What are your non business ideas to continue to grow / be engaged / socialize etc. during this time?
Zoom cocktail parties are keeping me content.
 
*** warning. rant coming. Lol! **

I’d just like a manufacturer to make a stellar product and charge a fair price. I would pay very good money to have old Coach quality (or even much better!) in new styles - no questions asked, full price paid. I remember being a broke college student and craving Coach bags because of what they “stood for”.

I get the corporate move to save costs. But, for those of us who who want great quality, deliver and we will pay!

I consistently hear of how wonderful Hermes leather and craftsmanship is. But [insert widely appropriate but not universal stereotype here] the prices are Uber high for what you get, I refuse to “pledge” to buy a bag by purchasing stuff I’m just ok with and then taking what I’m “offered” and most importantly, the aesthetic isn’t for me. Which is fine. I love diversity of approach. My way isn’t the gold standard. But, there should be a range of brands at various price points who do truly quality work - with lifetime “bumper to bumper” warranties like Coach used to offer.

On tPF people get excited because they like a bag/brand and, as an effect not a cause, scream “high quality”. :rolleyes: Polene is a brand that comes to mind but it’s not alone. I could (and often do) add in one of my faves, Chanel, in the “quality isn’t what we should expect for the price” bucket. But, name the brand and a legion of people will say it’s a high quality brand. But, do they know what quality means???? It seems what they are saying is “I got a great bag at a good price that seems worth it”. That does NOT equal quality. A high quality bag has exceptional leathers, nearly infallible hardware, painstakingly careful construction and meaningful design.

Is that era no more? Like the beautiful architecture of 500 or more years ago? You can’t get that in a building today without paying a truly exorbitant price to specialized and almost extinct craftsmen (people). If so, let’s call it. My latest bag - YSL camera - is super pretty and functional. But, it’s quality is just good enough. Can we be brave enough to say we just like the pretty sparkly thing and not try to justify the stupid price we paid for it?

So, I gotta be honest. (Cause I’m a bored as heck Sagittarius and that’s our jam! LOL!) I look at every recently produced bag I see and own sideways when it comes to “quality”. Yep, I said it. :lol: I’ve taken the blue pill a la Matrix and chat on tPB about amazing new bags because they are super cute. But, with a few rare exceptions, I still miss unequivocal, unabashed, mind blowing quality of eras gone by.
Fount Leather has that great quality and solid hardware but they are more simple styles and not your dressy style. The quality however is amazing and made in the USA. I thought when I sold my tote I would lose ridiculously but people know the quality and it went right away. My small bucket from them is perma stash. They still use solid brass .
 
Given that we are a global group, I’d like to get your perspective on something.

I am a native English speaker and list items in English. But, I’ve noticed over the years that some buyers will ask me questions in a different language. That means I have to use Google translate to understand and respond. No biggie but....hmmmm

The few times I’ve engaged with a buyer that listed in a different language (this usually happens on Vestiaire) I did the translation and sent my questions to them in the language of the listing.

My thought is that in initiating contact, I should make the attempt to speak the language of the other person. (It’s also why people in various counties have suffered through my mangling efforts when I travel. LOL!!!) I just feel it’s polite.

What do you say? Is there a cross cultural shopping etiquette of which I’m not aware? Would you engage with a buyer who reached out on a language you didn’t know? A seller? Would you worry the language barrier could result in a issue due to miscommunication?

When responding to a listing not in my native language German I at least try to say hello in the language the listing is written in and in case I do not speak this language ... oops, that´s always the case unless it´s English.... explain in a short sentence (either cobbled together from some rudimentary language skills or acquired by using an online translator) that I do not speak the language in question properly and asking is it all right to continue the conversation in English.
This usually works well.
I feel much safer using English than using an online translator into a language I do not speak well enough to be sure the translation actually says what I wanted to say as soon as it exceeds basic first sentences.
 
But, do they know what quality means???? It seems what they are saying is “I got a great bag at a good price that seems worth it”. That does NOT equal quality. A high quality bag has exceptional leathers, nearly infallible hardware, painstakingly careful construction and meaningful design.

Is that era no more?

Thank you for your rant! You took the words right out of my mouth!
I haven´t had the chance to see, touch, smell, scrutinize any Hermes or Chanel in person so far, but do own a few older Dior and YSL bags.
Quality as in good leather, hardware and craftmanship is always the first I look for when a new (old) bag comes in and not all of my Dior bags do qualify as quality. I love them and I buy them for the design, the idea, their aura...

On the other hand I own quite a few vintage non designer handbags and between them there are a few that do qualify as quality bags, that still ooze true luxury even after having been used and neglected for decades.

Since lots of designer bags have become flagship merchandise for the big brands to feed the need for luxury of the base of the pyramid real quality does not seem to be the focus anymore. You rather buy an idea, a token.
 
LOL well @Vintage Leather has the most practical command of French! Awesome. I can get by in French and Italian. My German is horrible, although I can read poetry. I have been trying to learn Mandarin for a while, but -- as you said-- it's difficult all by yourself.
I agree with this, i'm currently learning french, and it's hard by yourself.
 
Yeah, I think my husband is allergic to shopping. If we are in a store and I ask him if he wants something and it would be very convenient to get it then, he would rather leave. He won't give an opinion on anything I'm looking at; he just wants to leave. He also prefers to just drop me off at the mall while he goes to play poker.
Haha same. Before quarantine I would go to H or the mall during the day, and usually while my daughter was at daycare, so he never had to step foot in either of those places.
 
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They all have it except my nieces husband. They are all staying in the home. Now a different sister in law is unwell and we are worried all over again. I live very far from them so I feel bad that I can't go drop off groceries etc. Luckily there is other family near them.
Back to hand bag talk . It is a good distraction from reality. The woman already shipped the bag I made a low offer on. It will be a while though. The soft leather in the picture looks like the leather on my backpack . We shall see.
I bought some clothes online. For the first time everything fit . Still need a few more tops but am going with some of the ideas suggested in the book you recommended quite some time ago.
I hope they get to feeling better soon! So scary. But I’m glad you have a bag on the way. Can’t wait to see it!!

I’m glad all of you here are getting good deals on bags you’re winning in auctions! I once bid on a bag in an auction and my highest bid was not that low and I won it. I loved the bag but definitely was disappointed in my mistake haha.
 
Given that we are a global group, I’d like to get your perspective on something.

I am a native English speaker and list items in English. But, I’ve noticed over the years that some buyers will ask me questions in a different language. That means I have to use Google translate to understand and respond. No biggie but....hmmmm

The few times I’ve engaged with a buyer that listed in a different language (this usually happens on Vestiaire) I did the translation and sent my questions to them in the language of the listing.

My thought is that in initiating contact, I should make the attempt to speak the language of the other person. (It’s also why people in various counties have suffered through my mangling efforts when I travel. LOL!!!) I just feel it’s polite.

What do you say? Is there a cross cultural shopping etiquette of which I’m not aware? Would you engage with a buyer who reached out on a language you didn’t know? A seller? Would you worry the language barrier could result in a issue due to miscommunication?
I only ship in the continental US partly for this reason. Very good of you to make that effort! Is there an option in eBay to translate like there is in other apps? I would be careful because of possible miscommunication but you could always see if basic questions are able to be answered. If it gets complicated at all I would probably just avoid it. Might not be worth the trouble it could cause.
 
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