2020 resolution - shopping my own bag and wallet collection. Any one else?

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Funnies from the quarantine! :lol:

Ok, I’ve mentioned, I got married ridiculously young and had my babies shortly thereafter. While they were infants / toddlers, I was working full time as I finished grad school. Then my husband and I were busy building family and careers. So, looking “nice” at any level past serviceable / professional was the last thing on my list. Lol!

But, once my kids hit their teens, our lives were going well and I started dressing better (that’s also when I started addressing the horror that was my bag collection. LOL!). So, over the past few years, I’ve been having fun dressing well, being extra particular about my nails & hair, etc. (not a big makeup girl tho) and generally enjoying feeling girly.

<cue ominous music>

Then foot surgery, virus social distancing, working from home and cancelled vacations hit. :whut:

I don’t know how y’all are going on externally supported beauty processes but, it was getting kinda rough up in here. In an effort not to look like the love child of Sasquatch and Gollum, I’ve relearned the lost arts of plucking, manicuring, pedicuring, home hair coloring, sand blasting, spackling...

Because seriously... this meme is truth. :roflmfao:

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What fun beauty processes are you rediscovering during the quarantine? :biggrin:
I'm so happy I decided to grow out my gray hair several months ago. Maybe by the time this is over, it will be completely grown out. I don't have any problem cutting my own hair. I've been cutting it shorter in order to make it seem like I've made progress in growing it out. I usually straighten it after washing but I've started just leaving it to curl naturally. It's probably healthier and it doesn't matter since no one is going to see me other than DH. I never have a manicure since my nails look ridiculously tiny with any color on them. My cuticles are suffering from all the hand and dish washing. My toenails are in need of repolishing. I'll get to that soon. I don't like makeup so I'm fine in that department. My eyebrows need some work. They are very sparse. I've been mostly DIY with personal care so not much has changed for me.
 
Welcome! We love new pocket friends!

My thoughts for whatever they’re worth.

First, I wouldn’t worry about number of bags just because of the number. I used to have a strict limit but then I realized it was arbitrary and didn’t serve me. Now my limit is based on what I can reasonably wear. If I have too many bags to wear them all then (for me) that is a waste of physical and mental as space and money.

Second, once I decided to buy decent bags, I still used to make poor choices because I got caught up in what looked nice / my fantasy lifestyle / what was popular / etc. With the help support and a few bag slaps :bagslap: from the lovely ladies on this thread, I finally got to the place where I buy based on prior knowledge of what works and what I “need”. The former is simply knowing that I like smallish medium sized, semi structured bags because of the space and physical profile. I also only buy when a bag meets a vetted pre identified need / want. These two elements have come from me tracking what I wear. I also track what I think I want for at least 6 months. I give a tick mark to a bag if it truly would have been a better option than what I own. If a bag isn’t meeting a known need or a gap, it’s far easier for me not to buy because I know it would languish in my closet.

(side note on what if’s - we all need to vow to buy for how we live. I’m not clubbing with Cardi B nor lunching with Queen Elizabeth. Bags that only suit those purposes need to be loved from afar. LOL!)

Lastly, we’re here for you. Someone(s) here have “been there / done that” on just about every goofy bag thing that you could even think about doing. Criminy, I’m glad there is no photographic evidence for some of my early foolishness. :lol: So, no bag shame here. :lol:
I agree. I this time of uncertainty (and endless boredom) it’s bags to the rescue!

I love the range of your black bags. I want to be like you and have more bags for various occasions. I tend to buy for how I live 80% of the time and then struggle the other 20%.

I’m a Prada fan so you know I’ve loved your P since you bought it. That little evening bag is super cute. I forgot about your Jerome Dreyfuss. I really like that bag. The studs are a perfect blend of edgy and femme.
Thank you! I really love that Prada . Like you some bags that were useful but I just wore them to much and got bored are gone.
 
Thank you! I think you and I are some of the longest time posters on the SYC threads and it’s been fun seeing your approaches to bag collecting and curating over the years, too!
That is FABULOUS to say! I’ve been very candid about the fact that when I started poking around tPF I had over 150 bags - most of which were tacky, crappy or just sad. :lol: I’m talking sub (or sub sub) contemporary / clearance bin yuckness.

Part of that is I did need to elevate my taste level. I come from very practical people who think “fashion” is foolishness. So, I had to learn about style and taste as an adult.

But, the bigger part is I wasn’t comfortable in spending money on myself. Those practical parents who raised me were also super thrifty savers. So, while I’m grateful they instilled that overall value system in me, I had to get over the money “issues“ I had. I’m still thrifty ;) but I realized it makes far more sense for me to spend $3000 on one bag I’ll love and wear than $50 on 150 bags that sit in my closet and make me feel bad.

So, thank you very much for your compliment. It means a lot.
I’ve put the Fendi away a number of times but, I think it just needs to move on. (Sigh) It’s just so darn practical. And, I can’t believe I’ve worn it so often and it doesn’t have so much as a scuff on it. This was my first “new era” Fendi bag (I collected the B bags for a short while) and I am really impressed with the quality. It’s the direct opposite of my experience with YSL bags. LOL!

I don’t know what other bag I could get right now that would be as practical. Like I said - the most practical / easy to use bag I own is my Prada Double Zip (Galleria) bag. I sooooo wish that came in black / shw. I need something very similar to replace the Fendi.
Mr. Sparkle is loving the compliments on his drink and said thank you to everyone. :amuse:

But, :lol: - yeah. Not so much on me not having an emotional attachment. Selling is often really hard for me but, I’ve become relentless in getting rid of bags I don’t use because I’ve learned no matter how much I think giving them up will hurt, I always end up replacing them with someone I really am crazy about that is better for my life. And I don’t get any happy from owning things. I only get happy from using them. So, that helps motivate me to actively curate too.
Thanks for the compliment! I wouldn’t have thought I’d like the yellow either. But, I already had the blue and pink so I took a chance on it. I only wear her perhaps 3-4 times a year but, when I do she is a perfect fit for the outfit.

The other colors this bag came in were red, teal (Tiffany blue), mint green, beige-y pale pink, black and an odd speckled black and white pattern. The black came in both a yg and wg hardware option. All others (except the yellow) in wg. The red
and black w/ghw are incredibly hard to find. I’ve been searching on and off for both and can’t find them at a reasonable price / pristine condition combo.

One reason I love these bags is that the lamb is super durable. My Miss Diors have been rained on, sat on and even crunches in a door (I almost committed murder on those last two LOL!) yet they still look pristine. My Chanel lamb isn’t nearly that durable. I also love the capacity. They have a much smaller profile than the Chanel Jumbo but carry quite a bit more.


Your collection curating is very impressive!
I don´t come from a luxury background at all and even me owning heaps of cheap "contemporary" handbags used to be classified as a silly vanity.
At some point I understood it actually was and step by step got rid off them (the last one I found in the back of a cupboard went into the bin the other week!) but not without replacing them by a bigger vanity, a true passion: vintage handbags- chosen carefully to represent the decades and match my true vintage clothes.
Those that don´t make me happy are sold on rather quickly!
I might not use them very often and most of them gather dust, but when I have a chance to dress vintage it´s glorious to be able to reach behind me and pull out the perfect bag. (The same goes for gloves, shoes and hats!)

My designer bags are a different story.
I bought the first in 2015- a Gaucho bag- and from there on mainly concentrated on Galliano for Dior bags which speak to me.
All were bought preloved and at the lowest prices possible.
I don´t mind a scratch or two or even having to repair torn corners as for example on my Karenina.
I love the stories the designs tell... and even the shabbiest bag is a treasure, far too often "too dear too use". I love to have them, to look at them, to play with them. I don´t go out very often anyway.

Thank-you for all the information on the Miss Dior chain bag. There´s a bag climbing onto my wish list very purposefully right now... I´ll keep my eyes peeled for a red or black one with silver hardware. One can dream!
 
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My black bags in the order I purchased them
1. Brighton New York City Pouch, purchased new 2013
2. Coach studded mini Preston, purchased new 2014
3. Henri Bendel No. 7 camera bag, purchased new 2014
4. Coach large slim shoulder bag, made in 2001, purchased used in 2015, strap embellishment done 2019
5. Coach curb chain whiplash Dakotah, purchased new 2015
6. Coach vintage shoulder bag, purchased used in 2016, made in the early 70s
 

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Welcome! We love new pocket friends!

My thoughts for whatever they’re worth.

First, I wouldn’t worry about number of bags just because of the number. I used to have a strict limit but then I realized it was arbitrary and didn’t serve me. Now my limit is based on what I can reasonably wear. If I have too many bags to wear them all then (for me) that is a waste of physical and mental as space and money.

Second, once I decided to buy decent bags, I still used to make poor choices because I got caught up in what looked nice / my fantasy lifestyle / what was popular / etc. With the help support and a few bag slaps :bagslap: from the lovely ladies on this thread, I finally got to the place where I buy based on prior knowledge of what works and what I “need”. The former is simply knowing that I like smallish medium sized, semi structured bags because of the space and physical profile. I also only buy when a bag meets a vetted pre identified need / want. These two elements have come from me tracking what I wear. I also track what I think I want for at least 6 months. I give a tick mark to a bag if it truly would have been a better option than what I own. If a bag isn’t meeting a known need or a gap, it’s far easier for me not to buy because I know it would languish in my closet.

(side note on what if’s - we all need to vow to buy for how we live. I’m not clubbing with Cardi B nor lunching with Queen Elizabeth. Bags that only suit those purposes need to be loved from afar. LOL!)

Lastly, we’re here for you. Someone(s) here have “been there / done that” on just about every goofy bag thing that you could even think about doing. Criminy, I’m glad there is no photographic evidence for some of my early foolishness. :lol: So, no bag shame here. :lol:
I agree. I this time of uncertainty (and endless boredom) it’s bags to the rescue!

I love the range of your black bags. I want to be like you and have more bags for various occasions. I tend to buy for how I live 80% of the time and then struggle the other 20%.

I’m a Prada fan so you know I’ve loved your P since you bought it. That little evening bag is super cute. I forgot about your Jerome Dreyfuss. I really like that bag. The studs are a perfect blend of edgy and femme.
Thank you! I really love that Prada . Like you some bags that were useful but I just wore them to much and got bored are gone.
 
I truly feel like your bags are museum pieces. So unique and special!
Thank-you very much!
The funny thing about the vintage bags is, that most of them are fully fit to be worn and very low maintenace.
The exeption are bags that already came to me very brittle or broken beyond repair.
When ever I get a chance to dress vintage I reach for the perfect bag for the outfit and get a lot of joy out of wearing them as they just make a look complete.
 
My black bags in the order I purchased them
1. Brighton New York City Pouch, purchased new 2013
2. Coach studded mini Preston, purchased new 2014
3. Henri Bendel No. 7 camera bag, purchased new 2014
4. Coach large slim shoulder bag, made in 2001, purchased used in 2015, strap embellishment done 2019
5. Coach curb chain whiplash Dakotah, purchased new 2015
6. Coach vintage shoulder bag, purchased used in 2016, made in the early 70s
Love these! I could kick myself for not getting one of the quilted Henry Bendel bags.
 
Thank you! I really love that Prada . Like you some bags that were useful but I just wore them to much and got bored are gone.
I think I can relate to liking a bag, using it a lot, then getting bored. I’ve had the same experience with some bags. But because I have a lot in my collection, rotation can take a while. Sometimes, by the time a specific bag is back in rotation, my being bored with it has lessened. And sometimes there’s just a particular feature of the bag that would stand out (e.g. leather smell, ease of use) that would make me appreciate it a lot again!
 
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7. Coach Gramercy small satchel, made in 1998, purchased used 2017
8. Coach Sheridan Marietta drawstring, made in the early 1990s, purchased used 2017
9. Michael Kors Manhattan, purchased new 2019
10. Coach Kaffe Fassett Marleigh, purchased new 2020
 

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Love these! I could kick myself for not getting one of the quilted Henry Bendel bags.
Thanks! If you ever find one on a resale site, I imagine the price will be low since not too many people know about HB.
All your bags are lovely, but I´m totally head over heels in love with your New York City Pouch! So unique!
Thanks! It's tinier than my usual bag so I don't use it very much. I saw it about a year before I bought it. I thought it was completely sold out when I found it in an airport shop so I didn't wait any longer.
 
So here´s the Queen of closet museum pieces starting into black bag week...

very brittle small leather handbag from the 30ies
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2 little faux leather handbags from the 40ies
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50ies evening bags
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One of my favouritites! 50ies Goldpfeil handbag.It goes so well with everything and fits a lot while still being a smaller size:
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Entering the 60ies: this one might the best quality handbag I own. The photos don´t do it justice and being a bit dusty and still in need of a lot of tlc doesn´t make it better... German Seeger handbag.

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And the last one for this post: maybe the most unusal bag I own! I think this one is from the 60ies. The maker could be "Fortuna", a company I couldn´t find any information on.
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The bag has many issues (the dust the least tricky!) and undergone lots of structural repairs including welding of the fasteners during its life. The oval handle is made of some kind of plastic that starts feeling brittle- definetely one for the wardrobe museum. I wouldn´t dare wear it. It´s a Janus´ head with two faces.

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Some branded black bags...

Dior Karenina from 2008
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Dior 61Tote from 2008

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Dior Gaucho - the big one from 2006
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YSL Rive Gauche from around 2001
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YSL Rive Gauche, approx. 2001, from the Mombasa collection
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...and our Niffler´s favourite bag:
Dior Gambler from 2004

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Wow... wow... WOW! So many beautiful bags... I’ll confess my favorites are the Diors - such gorgeous leather!
 
Some eye candy to brighten the week! More to come. Reissue 225 with ruthenium hdw, small vanity case 20S with classic chain, Kate Spade quilted tote with champagne hdw (have had this bag for over 7 years now and NO wear and tear!!!), Chanel boy WOC, Mulberry Lily, Gucci Disco, Chanel Business Affinity Medium size, and YSL WOC
 

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