2020 resolution - shopping my own bag and wallet collection. Any one else?

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Evening bag
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Coach
MCM
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I love how you have curated your bags over the years to such a stunning collection. Well done.
Thank you! I think you and I are some of the longest time posters on the SYC threads and it’s been fun seeing your approaches to bag collecting and curating over the years, too!
I like the changes you've made! Everything looks a bit more elegant, if that's OK to say.
That is FABULOUS to say! I’ve been very candid about the fact that when I started poking around tPF I had over 150 bags - most of which were tacky, crappy or just sad. :lol: I’m talking sub (or sub sub) contemporary / clearance bin yuckness.

Part of that is I did need to elevate my taste level. I come from very practical people who think “fashion” is foolishness. So, I had to learn about style and taste as an adult.

But, the bigger part is I wasn’t comfortable in spending money on myself. Those practical parents who raised me were also super thrifty savers. So, while I’m grateful they instilled that overall value system in me, I had to get over the money “issues“ I had. I’m still thrifty :wink: but I realized it makes far more sense for me to spend $3000 on one bag I’ll love and wear than $50 on 150 bags that sit in my closet and make me feel bad.

So, thank you very much for your compliment. It means a lot.
Lovely black bags, I’m still a huge fan of the black bag!
What if you put your Fendi ‘away’ for a bit? You might find that you’re not tired of it any more?

I love this darling yellow bag - so cheerful!
And thank you for your kind words!
I’ve put the Fendi away a number of times but, I think it just needs to move on. (Sigh) It’s just so darn practical. And, I can’t believe I’ve worn it so often and it doesn’t have so much as a scuff on it. This was my first “new era” Fendi bag (I collected the B bags for a short while) and I am really impressed with the quality. It’s the direct opposite of my experience with YSL bags. LOL!

I don’t know what other bag I could get right now that would be as practical. Like I said - the most practical / easy to use bag I own is my Prada Double Zip (Galleria) bag. I sooooo wish that came in black / shw. I need something very similar to replace the Fendi.
that looks delish! i'd love tp have one of those!

He definitely should! i'd follow alon!



Very nice collection! i like how you don't have emotional attachment to your bags and you can easily sell what does not work for you.


i agree!

This makes me really sad..
Mr. Sparkle is loving the compliments on his drink and said thank you to everyone. :amuse:

But, :lol: - yeah. Not so much on me not having an emotional attachment. Selling is often really hard for me but, I’ve become relentless in getting rid of bags I don’t use because I’ve learned no matter how much I think giving them up will hurt, I always end up replacing them with someone I really am crazy about that is better for my life. And I don’t get any happy from owning things. I only get happy from using them. So, that helps motivate me to actively curate too.
I adore your Miss Dior chain bag! Yellow and gold wouldn´t be my colour choices, but the model appeals to me extremely. There´s a wish forming in my head right now... red and silver? Maybe one day!
Thanks for the compliment! I wouldn’t have thought I’d like the yellow either. But, I already had the blue and pink so I took a chance on it. I only wear her perhaps 3-4 times a year but, when I do she is a perfect fit for the outfit.

The other colors this bag came in were red, teal (Tiffany blue), mint green, beige-y pale pink, black and an odd speckled black and white pattern. The black came in both a yg and wg hardware option. All others (except the yellow) in wg. The red
and black w/ghw are incredibly hard to find. I’ve been searching on and off for both and can’t find them at a reasonable price / pristine condition combo.

One reason I love these bags is that the lamb is super durable. My Miss Diors have been rained on, sat on and even crunches in a door (I almost committed murder on those last two LOL!) yet they still look pristine. My Chanel lamb isn’t nearly that durable. I also love the capacity. They have a much smaller profile than the Chanel Jumbo but carry quite a bit more.
 
So, I read through all 188 pages of this thread, and I hope it's ok to join in, even though it's nearly April now. I need these kinds of thread to help me keep my mind when I just want to buy and also to hopefully bring my collection down closer to a number I feel is more reasonable.

Probably my biggest hurdle in regards to purchasing is that when something gets in my head, I can become borderline obsessive with it, and I haven't figure out how to get it out of my head other than to just buy it already. This is unfortunate because I seem to only have about a 50% success rate in the purchase working out for me. I do research my purchases a great deal, but I also have the wonderfully-awful ability to rationalize and convince myself into a purchase - even when I know there are things that probably won't work for me. I haven't figured out how to work through this yet, but I really need to because it just isn't a fiscally great way to do things. :-s

My biggest hurdles in downsizing are sentimental attachments, the fact that I just love too many things, and a huge case of the "what ifs". I've done really well with listing a TON of bags to sell - ones that I didn't love. But I'm left with approx. 40 bags in my collection (including clutches, not including foldable totes like Longchamp or beach bags), which is more than I want. I can't seem to figure out where or how to downsize further though because I love what I have left.

Seems silly to be thinking of these things in the midst of all the uncertainty and concern in the world, but in the mess of thoughts tumbling around in my head these days, this remains a part of them. Sending well-wishes to you all. I hope you are all staying as safe as possible.
Welcome! We love new pocket friends!

My thoughts for whatever they’re worth.

First, I wouldn’t worry about number of bags just because of the number. I used to have a strict limit but then I realized it was arbitrary and didn’t serve me. Now my limit is based on what I can reasonably wear. If I have too many bags to wear them all then (for me) that is a waste of physical and mental as space and money.

Second, once I decided to buy decent bags, I still used to make poor choices because I got caught up in what looked nice / my fantasy lifestyle / what was popular / etc. With the help support and a few bag slaps :bagslap: from the lovely ladies on this thread, I finally got to the place where I buy based on prior knowledge of what works and what I “need”. The former is simply knowing that I like smallish medium sized, semi structured bags because of the space and physical profile. I also only buy when a bag meets a vetted pre identified need / want. These two elements have come from me tracking what I wear. I also track what I think I want for at least 6 months. I give a tick mark to a bag if it truly would have been a better option than what I own. If a bag isn’t meeting a known need or a gap, it’s far easier for me not to buy because I know it would languish in my closet.

(side note on what if’s - we all need to vow to buy for how we live. I’m not clubbing with Cardi B nor lunching with Queen Elizabeth. Bags that only suit those purposes need to be loved from afar. LOL!)

Lastly, we’re here for you. Someone(s) here have “been there / done that” on just about every goofy bag thing that you could even think about doing. Criminy, I’m glad there is no photographic evidence for some of my early foolishness. :lol: So, no bag shame here. :lol:
Welcome to the group. I find focusing on my bags is a great stress reliever as this is something I can have control over.
I agree. I this time of uncertainty (and endless boredom) it’s bags to the rescue!
mo851
Evening bag
Prada
Coach
MCM
Mz Wallace
Michael Kors
Ralph Lauren
Also my Mulberry SBS
Jerome Dreyfuss
I think that is it.
I love the range of your black bags. I want to be like you and have more bags for various occasions. I tend to buy for how I live 80% of the time and then struggle the other 20%.

I’m a Prada fan so you know I’ve loved your P since you bought it. That little evening bag is super cute. I forgot about your Jerome Dreyfuss. I really like that bag. The studs are a perfect blend of edgy and femme.
 
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Funnies from the quarantine! :lol:

Ok, I’ve mentioned, I got married ridiculously young and had my babies shortly thereafter. While they were infants / toddlers, I was working full time as I finished grad school. Then my husband and I were busy building family and careers. So, looking “nice” at any level past serviceable / professional was the last thing on my list. Lol!

But, once my kids hit their teens, our lives were going well and I started dressing better (that’s also when I started addressing the horror that was my bag collection. LOL!). So, over the past few years, I’ve been having fun dressing well, being extra particular about my nails & hair, etc. (not a big makeup girl tho) and generally enjoying feeling girly.

<cue ominous music>

Then foot surgery, virus social distancing, working from home and cancelled vacations hit. :whut:

I don’t know how y’all are going on externally supported beauty processes but, it was getting kinda rough up in here. In an effort not to look like the love child of Sasquatch and Gollum, I’ve relearned the lost arts of plucking, manicuring, pedicuring, home hair coloring, sand blasting, spackling...

Because seriously... this meme is truth. :roflmfao:

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What fun beauty processes are you rediscovering during the quarantine? :biggrin:
 
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So, I read through all 188 pages of this thread, and I hope it's ok to join in, even though it's nearly April now. I need these kinds of thread to help me keep my mind when I just want to buy and also to hopefully bring my collection down closer to a number I feel is more reasonable.

Probably my biggest hurdle in regards to purchasing is that when something gets in my head, I can become borderline obsessive with it, and I haven't figure out how to get it out of my head other than to just buy it already. This is unfortunate because I seem to only have about a 50% success rate in the purchase working out for me. I do research my purchases a great deal, but I also have the wonderfully-awful ability to rationalize and convince myself into a purchase - even when I know there are things that probably won't work for me. I haven't figured out how to work through this yet, but I really need to because it just isn't a fiscally great way to do things. :-s

My biggest hurdles in downsizing are sentimental attachments, the fact that I just love too many things, and a huge case of the "what ifs". I've done really well with listing a TON of bags to sell - ones that I didn't love. But I'm left with approx. 40 bags in my collection (including clutches, not including foldable totes like Longchamp or beach bags), which is more than I want. I can't seem to figure out where or how to downsize further though because I love what I have left.

Seems silly to be thinking of these things in the midst of all the uncertainty and concern in the world, but in the mess of thoughts tumbling around in my head these days, this remains a part of them. Sending well-wishes to you all. I hope you are all staying as safe as possible.
Welcome!!
 
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So here´s the Queen of closet museum pieces starting into black bag week...

very brittle small leather handbag from the 30ies
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2 little faux leather handbags from the 40ies
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50ies evening bags
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One of my favouritites! 50ies Goldpfeil handbag.It goes so well with everything and fits a lot while still being a smaller size:
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Entering the 60ies: this one might the best quality handbag I own. The photos don´t do it justice and being a bit dusty and still in need of a lot of tlc doesn´t make it better... German Seeger handbag.

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And the last one for this post: maybe the most unusal bag I own! I think this one is from the 60ies. The maker could be "Fortuna", a company I couldn´t find any information on.
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The bag has many issues (the dust the least tricky!) and undergone lots of structural repairs including welding of the fasteners during its life. The oval handle is made of some kind of plastic that starts feeling brittle- definetely one for the wardrobe museum. I wouldn´t dare wear it. It´s a Janus´ head with two faces.

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I truly feel like your bags are museum pieces. So unique and special!
 
Funnies from the quarantine! :lol:

Ok, I’ve mentioned, I got married ridiculously young and had my babies shortly thereafter. While they were infants / toddlers, I was working full time as I finished grad school. Then my husband and I were busy building family and careers. So, looking “nice” at any level past serviceable / professional was the last thing on my list. Lol!

But, once my kids hit their teens, our lives were going well and I started dressing better (that’s also when I started addressing the horror that was my bag collection. LOL!). So, over the past few years, I’ve been having fun dressing well, being extra particular about my nails & hair, etc. (not a big makeup girl tho) and generally enjoying feeling girly.

<cue ominous music>

Then foot surgery, virus social distancing, working from home and cancelled vacations hit. :whut:

I don’t know how y’all are going on externally supported beauty processes but, it was getting kinda rough up in here. In an effort not to look like the love child of Sasquatch and Gollum, I’ve relearned the lost arts of plucking, manicuring, pedicuring, home hair coloring, sand blasting, spackling...

Because seriously... this meme is truth. :roflmfao:

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What fun beauty processes are you rediscovering during the quarantine? :biggrin:
HAHAHA. Love this!! I'm taking care of myself a little less, showering less, changing out of my PJs less. I just don't feel like I can or want to ask my husband for those few extra minutes to do a mask at night or on the weekend. I will need to pluck my eyebrows lightly at some point. I actually floss my teeth more for some reason! I bought a new electric toothbrush and facial brush (the electric kind that vibrate and massage your face) so I should switch to using those and that would be a little bit of self-care! I need to try harder to get myself ready and in the mood for the workday, but I'm struggling right now.
 
Funnies from the quarantine! :lol:

Ok, I’ve mentioned, I got married ridiculously young and had my babies shortly thereafter. While they were infants / toddlers, I was working full time as I finished grad school. Then my husband and I were busy building family and careers. So, looking “nice” at any level past serviceable / professional was the last thing on my list. Lol!

But, once my kids hit their teens, our lives were going well and I started dressing better (that’s also when I started addressing the horror that was my bag collection. LOL!). So, over the past few years, I’ve been having fun dressing well, being extra particular about my nails & hair, etc. (not a big makeup girl tho) and generally enjoying feeling girly.

<cue ominous music>

Then foot surgery, virus social distancing, working from home and cancelled vacations hit. :whut:

I don’t know how y’all are going on externally supported beauty processes but, it was getting kinda rough up in here. In an effort not to look like the love child of Sasquatch and Gollum, I’ve relearned the lost arts of plucking, manicuring, pedicuring, home hair coloring, sand blasting, spackling...

Because seriously... this meme is truth. :roflmfao:

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What fun beauty processes are you rediscovering during the quarantine? :biggrin:
Oh I hear you!
The photos are hilarious! Thank you for lightening the mood. I really needed this!!!:hugs:
 
I don’t know how y’all are going on externally supported beauty processes but, it was getting kinda rough up in here. In an effort not to look like the love child of Sasquatch and Gollum, I’ve relearned the lost arts of plucking, manicuring, pedicuring, home hair coloring, sand blasting, spackling...

Because seriously... this meme is truth. :roflmfao:

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What fun beauty processes are you rediscovering during the quarantine? :biggrin:
OMG, this is hysterical! :lol: :lol: :lol:
Well, I don't color my hair, but my hair is short, so it's going to look pretty strange in a few weeks when I'm well overdue for a haircut.
I did think ahead last week to have my manicurist remove my gel mani and cut my nails very short, so now I'm "au naturel" which probably isn't a bad thing. I'm using my little container of Dior Crème Abricot cuticle cream as often as possible, what with all the hand-washing.
I do get regular facials, but the most important part of that is exfoliating, which I also do at home twice a week. I have a nice product, and if I run out there's always the rub-your-face-with-a-washcloth method that I did in grad school when I had no $$$ for luxuries.
Back to tweezing my own eyebrows. I think I'll live.
I guess in the general scheme of things, I'm pretty low-maintenance! :rolleyes:
 
Funnies from the quarantine! :lol:

Ok, I’ve mentioned, I got married ridiculously young and had my babies shortly thereafter. While they were infants / toddlers, I was working full time as I finished grad school. Then my husband and I were busy building family and careers. So, looking “nice” at any level past serviceable / professional was the last thing on my list. Lol!

But, once my kids hit their teens, our lives were going well and I started dressing better (that’s also when I started addressing the horror that was my bag collection. LOL!). So, over the past few years, I’ve been having fun dressing well, being extra particular about my nails & hair, etc. (not a big makeup girl tho) and generally enjoying feeling girly.

<cue ominous music>

Then foot surgery, virus social distancing, working from home and cancelled vacations hit. :whut:

I don’t know how y’all are going on externally supported beauty processes but, it was getting kinda rough up in here. In an effort not to look like the love child of Sasquatch and Gollum, I’ve relearned the lost arts of plucking, manicuring, pedicuring, home hair coloring, sand blasting, spackling...

Because seriously... this meme is truth. :roflmfao:

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What fun beauty processes are you rediscovering during the quarantine? :biggrin:

Haha, I am one of the "girls" who never had a professional facial, manicure or pedicure in all my life and the few times I went to the hairdresser to have my hair dyed I was totally disappointed- so nothing much is changing beauty-wise for me. I´ll dye my hair once it gets too bad which should be the case in another 4 weeks, keep painting over my messy nails with dark red polish to hide the effects of hand sewing and pram cleaning and keep looking the usual bushy eybrowy mess...
 
Black bags
So here´s the Queen of closet museum pieces starting into black bag week...

very brittle small leather handbag from the 30ies
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2 little faux leather handbags from the 40ies
View attachment 4695317

50ies evening bags
View attachment 4695319 View attachment 4695320 View attachment 4695321

One of my favouritites! 50ies Goldpfeil handbag.It goes so well with everything and fits a lot while still being a smaller size:
View attachment 4695335


Entering the 60ies: this one might the best quality handbag I own. The photos don´t do it justice and being a bit dusty and still in need of a lot of tlc doesn´t make it better... German Seeger handbag.

View attachment 4695324 View attachment 4695322 View attachment 4695323

And the last one for this post: maybe the most unusal bag I own! I think this one is from the 60ies. The maker could be "Fortuna", a company I couldn´t find any information on.
View attachment 4695336 View attachment 4695337

The bag has many issues (the dust the least tricky!) and undergone lots of structural repairs including welding of the fasteners during its life. The oval handle is made of some kind of plastic that starts feeling brittle- definetely one for the wardrobe museum. I wouldn´t dare wear it. It´s a Janus´ head with two faces.

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These are amazing! I love them!
 
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Funnies from the quarantine! :lol:

Ok, I’ve mentioned, I got married ridiculously young and had my babies shortly thereafter. While they were infants / toddlers, I was working full time as I finished grad school. Then my husband and I were busy building family and careers. So, looking “nice” at any level past serviceable / professional was the last thing on my list. Lol!

But, once my kids hit their teens, our lives were going well and I started dressing better (that’s also when I started addressing the horror that was my bag collection. LOL!). So, over the past few years, I’ve been having fun dressing well, being extra particular about my nails & hair, etc. (not a big makeup girl tho) and generally enjoying feeling girly.

<cue ominous music>

Then foot surgery, virus social distancing, working from home and cancelled vacations hit. :whut:

I don’t know how y’all are going on externally supported beauty processes but, it was getting kinda rough up in here. In an effort not to look like the love child of Sasquatch and Gollum, I’ve relearned the lost arts of plucking, manicuring, pedicuring, home hair coloring, sand blasting, spackling...

Because seriously... this meme is truth. :roflmfao:

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What fun beauty processes are you rediscovering during the quarantine? :biggrin:
playing with my makeup, creating new eye looks, plucking my brows, and waxing.
 
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