I remember when you bought this, such a stunning piece!
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I remember when you bought this, such a stunning piece!
Hahaaa - Mr Cookie gets nervous when I start eyeing his side of the closet…Me, too! What other things do you do, to distract yourself from the seductiveness of on-line shopping? Recently I've been organizing the kitchen & bathroom cupboards, but it's making Mr. PG a little nervous. He says he wants to dig a hole and hide inside it, just in case I start "organizing" him!
You forgot to say it's adorable!!
I’ve had to force myself off the web. It’s too early to be lured into a sale.Me, too! What other things do you do, to distract yourself from the seductiveness of on-line shopping? Recently I've been organizing the kitchen & bathroom cupboards, but it's making Mr. PG a little nervous. He says he wants to dig a hole and hide inside it, just in case I start "organizing" him!
The main thing that is helping me now is constantly reminding myself of what I have - especially since this both a birthday and Christmas month for me. But, that is a little of a cheat since I just bought something two days ago.
My consolation is that it’s something I need (this usage was on my short list of to buys) and I got it at a steal. The other thing I’m doing is trying to stay busy with activities. But, I’m exhausted from a rough year. (Mr. Sparkle isn’t yet 100%) so some of that “activity” has been cuddling accompanied by white chocolate martinis.
And my waistline is suffering. I’ve gained 12 lbs in the last few months with worrying about Mr. S and other recent stressors. That is not like me at all. 
Luckily, I lose weight pretty easily but, I’m not in the mood to really attack it til after the holidays. So I’m just going back to my usual IF so some of the pounds come off without effort.
Besides Painting I have been going through old file and shredding stuff. Also playing fetch indoors with my dogs. The little dog has gotten really good at bringing me my slippers.Me, too! What other things do you do, to distract yourself from the seductiveness of on-line shopping? Recently I've been organizing the kitchen & bathroom cupboards, but it's making Mr. PG a little nervous. He says he wants to dig a hole and hide inside it, just in case I start "organizing" him!
I have gained a bit recently too. I will wait till after the holidays too.I’ve had to force myself off the web. It’s too early to be lured into a sale.
The main thing that is helping me now is constantly reminding myself of what I have - especially since this both a birthday and Christmas month for me. But, that is a little of a cheat since I just bought something two days ago.
The other thing I’m doing is trying to stay busy with activities. But, I’m exhausted from a rough year. (Mr. Sparkle isn’t yet 100%) so some of that “activity” has been cuddling accompanied by white chocolate martinis.
I recently lost a lot of weight that I'd like to keep off. First from an accident and then from being sick. My appetite has returned so now I'm worried it will come back.
I need to find some kind of exercise that I actually enjoy. Maybe you could do the same.
I love swimming but I can only do it during the summer. I do physical therapy about an hour a day to aid in my recovery from my accident.
I just want to maintain and not slip any further.
I hope you feel better soon. Just eat healthfully and you’ll be fine.
I know we’re all working to be more mindful of (or even ban) our purchases.
So, I’m curious. How do you approach possible buying? Do you have a detailed plan of acquisition with a list of specific models and target dates? Are you looking to fill certain usage gaps like big tote or casual WOC but don’t have a specific model in mind? Are you working without a plan and simply evaluating each bag as it crosses your fancy? Are you still impulsive and struggling to contain buying? Other?
Please share your perspective and any insight on working / not working. And no worries, no matter how haphazard or out of control you feel, most of us have been there and are here for support. Or if you are super rigid and disciplined that’s ok too! No criticism.
For me, I have a specific list of types of bags (not specific models) I need. I’ve developed this list from tracking each time I want to wear a bag I don’t have on my closet. In the last couple years, I’ve gotten good at not going outside my well thought out list. (After years of buying and selling like a manic cuckoo bird. Lol!)
In full transparency, however, I’m “helped” with this as Mr. S buys me at least one bag a year that’s a surprise indulgence. So, I don’t feel the “pain” of being super disciplined. Kinda knowing a surprise will come my way at some point helps me be “good” and not go rogue.
So, I’m curious. How do you approach possible buying? Do you have a detailed plan of acquisition with a list of specific models and target dates? Are you looking to fill certain usage gaps like big tote or casual WOC but don’t have a specific model in mind? Are you working without a plan and simply evaluating each bag as it crosses your fancy? Are you still impulsive and struggling to contain buying? Other?
Please share your perspective and any insight on working / not working. And no worries, no matter how haphazard or out of control you feel, most of us have been there and are here for support. Or if you are super rigid and disciplined that’s ok too! No criticism.
For me, I have a specific list of types of bags (not specific models) I need. I’ve developed this list from tracking each time I want to wear a bag I don’t have on my closet. In the last couple years, I’ve gotten good at not going outside my well thought out list. (After years of buying and selling like a manic cuckoo bird. Lol!)
In full transparency, however, I’m “helped” with this as Mr. S buys me at least one bag a year that’s a surprise indulgence. So, I don’t feel the “pain” of being super disciplined. Kinda knowing a surprise will come my way at some point helps me be “good” and not go rogue.
That should be enough. Hope you are recovering well.
Something not good happened to me, well to my house, early December (I’m not ready to talk about it though) and this has kept me from both B&M and online shopping because I am just not in the mood. Plus I have had unexpected expenses following the incident. So I really am safe from shopping, at least for now.
So sorry to read this. I hope the ultimate outcome will somehow be positive for you. Hang in there and please keep us posted.Something not good happened to me, well to my house, early December (I’m not ready to talk about it though) and this has kept me from both B&M and online shopping because I am just not in the mood. Plus I have had unexpected expenses following the incident. So I really am safe from shopping, at least for now.
Goodness - I’m sorry to hear you’ve been in an accident, but glad to hear you’re recuperating.
I think your PT will help, but remember recuperation takes time. I wouldn’t worry too much about your weight right now.
Oh dear.Something not good happened to me, well to my house, early December (I’m not ready to talk about it though) and this has kept me from both B&M and online shopping because I am just not in the mood. Plus I have had unexpected expenses following the incident. So I really am safe from shopping, at least for now.
I hope that it works out in the end. We’re here to listen when you’re ready, and sending positive vibes your way.
You know what, though? Even before all those discounts (well done, by the way!), a bag that makes you literally stop in your tracks is EXACTLY the kind of purchase that makes sense. Something you absolutely love that you can use is 100% a win.Bag confessional time - I was a little “bad” and purchased a new bag.
I saw a woman wearing this bag at the Farmer’s Market of all places and stopped in my tracks. Not because it was flashy but, because it was the perfect casual out and about bag. It’s been on my mind since then and I actually put in on my Pinterest “Items to Watch” board.When I saw it online at Saks two months ago, I said “Sparkle, stop!”
Then the Saks Black Friday sales happened and I ended up with $225 in gift cards because of some of my purchases for Mr. Sparkle’s Christmas presents. And, Saks is running another cash off purchase sale. And, Rakuten has 11% cash back. And, I get points on my AmEx.
And...well, I just want the bag.
When it’s all done, I will have paid 48% for a brand new premier designer bag that I’ve lusted over for a couple months now and that I know I’ll use to death. That is far less than I could have even gotten it preloved. So, I pounced.
I will share as soon as she gets in. I don’t usually buy myself bday presents but Happy Bday to me!
I keep a wishlist--it keeps me accountable in terms of only buying what I need. If I like something but it doesn't have a place in my closet, I put it on pinterest so I can admire it without actually wanting it.I know we’re all working to be more mindful of (or even ban) our purchases.
So, I’m curious. How do you approach possible buying? Do you have a detailed plan of acquisition with a list of specific models and target dates? Are you looking to fill certain usage gaps like big tote or casual WOC but don’t have a specific model in mind? Are you working without a plan and simply evaluating each bag as it crosses your fancy? Are you still impulsive and struggling to contain buying? Other?
Please share your perspective and any insight on working / not working. And no worries, no matter how haphazard or out of control you feel, most of us have been there and are here for support. Or if you are super rigid and disciplined that’s ok too! No criticism.
For me, I have a specific list of types of bags (not specific models) I need. I’ve developed this list from tracking each time I want to wear a bag I don’t have on my closet. In the last couple years, I’ve gotten good at not going outside my well thought out list. (After years of buying and selling like a manic cuckoo bird. Lol!)
In full transparency, however, I’m “helped” with this as Mr. S buys me at least one bag a year that’s a surprise indulgence. So, I don’t feel the “pain” of being super disciplined. Kinda knowing a surprise will come my way at some point helps me be “good” and not go rogue.
My list includes both specific models I'm interested in (LV Speedy 30 in damier ebene) if I've narrowed down my needs enough or just really like a particular style, and general needs (large black tote for traveling).
I still "go rogue" sometimes (LOL!), but I also put my overall handbag collection goals on that wishlist to help curb that.
MSD, I'm so sorry to hear that. Hope it gets settled soon.Something not good happened to me, well to my house, early December (I’m not ready to talk about it though) and this has kept me from both B&M and online shopping because I am just not in the mood. Plus I have had unexpected expenses following the incident. So I really am safe from shopping, at least for now.