2019 resolution - shopping my own bag and wallet collection. Any one else?

[Sparkletastic]

I would let go if you don’t love or want to wear. If you will wear here and there and have room I would keep for awhile longer and see if your opinion changes. Styles come and go.

Well said. I totally agree with this, @Sparkletastic . You have to love the way you look.

They all got put in the “go” pile. I wouldn’t keep a bag others liked if I didn’t. Same principle needs to be applied to everything else.

Jealous! I hate selling. I have 3 bags going to consignment once I get the time.

Good luck on your sales. This bag had been on sale for almost a year. It needed to find its new home. I know exactly what I want to get to replace it. I just have to find it as it’s not a current bag.

And, the good thing is, selling it caused me to look at my account (Tradesy). I had proceeds from a bag I sold a WHILE ago just sitting there totally forgotten. How could that even happen??????

 

[More bags]

Hi pocket friends I am returning to this thread after a month long break from TPF. Great to read and catch up on what I missed.

as promised, here it is in action today!

Awesome bag, a gorgeous add to your collection ksuromax.

Checking in. It’s been an incredibly difficult past few weeks. My mother had a stroke. I’m an only child and she lives in a different city. She is going to be ok but, has limited motion on her right side.

Unfortunately, my mother is not a “nice” person. I’ve mentioned this before but, probably you all thought it was a “normal” not nice or personality conflict and it isn’t. Case in point:

DS lives in the same city as she. When she was having issues, she called him to take her to the hospital which he did. When she got there, she intimated to the staff that she was afraid of DS because he had pushed her. Long story short, my son - who was missing work and school trying to care for his grandma - was grilled like a felon by the police and my mother’s care was delayed because she sent them down a fake path. Luckily her exam showed there was no push and fall - there was the stroke.

I’ve dealt with her evil since I was little and she has pulled the same type of thing on me to the point I’ve had to be proactive with her doctors and caregivers to let them know how she behaves. But, I’d shielded my children from her horrible nature, so DS is struggling to comprehend how she could want to hurt him. Sadly, I’ve had to tell both kids not to have contact with her and just let me handle things.

And no, she doesn’t have dementia or reduced capacity. She is a proud, braggy, card carrying, clear headed Mensan who has ALWAYS been this way - using hypochondria and drama to torment the family.

So, trying to care for her is difficult and, as you can guess, she doesn’t win any friends at hospitals or care facilities which means I have to hover to make sure she is treated well while I try to stay sane.

This is one of the things DH & I actually bonded over. His mother is just as horrible but in different ways - his mom was physically abusive whereas mine is all about head games. Most people don’t “get it” when you say “mom” is a terrible person and want to shame you into always being forgiving and close to Mama. But, evil comes in all shapes and sizes. All, he and I can do is make sure our mothers are safe and cared for from a distance. Relationship is impossible.

If you have a good mom - hug her close. If you know someone who struggles with their mom - give them a hug too. It’s horrendous.

Anyway, I’m double lump grumpy so, shopping the last thing on my list. But, one of my bracelets sold for 110% of what I paid for it. I’m happy it’s gone but, it was kind of a burden to have to pack and ship it right now.

Happier times are ahead though. Memorial Day weekend should be fun! Fingers crossed.

I am sorry to hear about you mom’s stroke and even more sorry to hear about her antics towards your son. Sending hugs and courage your way.

Here is a shot of the Mz Mini Paige I bought. I accidentally posted it in the wrong thread the other day.

I like this shade of green, it looks fabulous on you dc!

I’m so sorry you’ve had to deal with this. And the way she targeted your son is way out of bounds. In my family, it’s my dad who is the narcissist. They are truly toxic people. I don’t know your whole situation, but I can say I feel your pain — having a narcissist for a parent really sucks.

I’ve been MIA from this thread as well, not for anything nearly as dramatic, just a bad mix of busy and sick. Take an upper respiratory bug that causes congestion and uncontrollable coughing, add in pink eye, and that’s been me for the last two weeks. I’ve had a new bag for a while and no energy to do a proper reveal, but hopefully this weekend I’ll post some pics!

Wishing you a speedy recovery catsinthebag. I had pneumonia in April, it was awful, and I’ve had pink eye in the past, not fun. I empathize with you on the respiratory bug and pink eye at the same time! I hope you feel better soon and I can’t wait to see your reveal!

I’m glad I’m not the only one who’s too busy to be active... if this thread was running at its usual frenetic pace, I would have absolutely no hope of keeping up in my ‘lurk and like’ mode

I got back from my vacation, and am tackling my new role as Partner. I think I’m doing okay, but self doubt is lurking in the background... It will be fine, I’m sure!

Bags-wise I’ve been surprisingly content since I bought my YSL envelope (in March) and then my Chanel clutch (in April) to celebrate my promotion. These two bags are basically all I’ve carried since buying them, besides my Le Pliage which I took to beach. That’s very unlike me because I tend to rotate frequently, but I’m enjoying the purse peace

Congratulations again on the new partnership role! Your vacation pics are lovely. Your latest bags are divine, great additions to your collection. Congrats on Purse peace.

Omg! I am so sorry to hear this. Your poor DS and you, and your mom for her health issues. Both my grandmas were not nice people so I lived through it from your DS’ perspective and had very little contact with them. It made my parents so loving towards us and my DH and kids since they wanted to be the opposite and have a loving relationship with their family.

My father is in the ICU right now and it was sudden and a shock, so I am living through how a health issue with a parent turns your life upside down. No matter your relationship I am sure it is difficult to manage. Hugs to you!

lynne_ross, I’m sorry to hear about your father’s health issue. Sending hugs your way. I can empathize with the emotional roller coaster you are on. My father in law was hospitalized two days before we were due to fly out of country for Christmas vacation. We went through all of the fear of will he make it, to once he stabilized, what does post hospital care look like to how will my mother in law deal with picking up the things he used to do, like mowing the lawn? Wishing you all the best and sending strength and courage your way.

Here is my new Marc Jacobs tote. I have not used it yet. If weather permits I will today.

dc, this is a lovely neutral colour. Congratulations also on your recent additions, they are a great complement to your collection. You really know what works for you!

 

[Sparkletastic]

Shoulder carry! I have enough hand carry. The great thing is I can even carry a small painting in it if need be , without worrying that it might rip.

Pretty bag. That must be bigger than it looks to have a drop for shoulder carry. I was thinking it was arm carry. What is the size?

 

[dcooney4]

Hi pocket friends I am returning to this thread after a month long break from TPF. Great to read and catch up on what I missed.


Awesome bag, a gorgeous add to your collection ksuromax.


I am sorry to hear about you mom’s stroke and even more sorry to hear about her antics towards your son. Sending hugs and courage your way.


I like this shade of green, it looks fabulous on you dc!


Wishing you a speedy recovery catsinthebag. I had pneumonia in April, it was awful, and I’ve had pink eye in the past, not fun. I empathize with you on the respiratory bug and pink eye at the same time! I hope you feel better soon and I can’t wait to see your reveal!


Congratulations again on the new partnership role! Your vacation pics are lovely. Your latest bags are divine, great additions to your collection. Congrats on Purse peace.


lynne_ross, I’m sorry to hear about your father’s health issue. Sending hugs your way. I can empathize with the emotional roller coaster you are on. My father in law was hospitalized two days before we were due to fly out of country for Christmas vacation. We went through all of the fear of will he make it, to once he stabilized, what does post hospital care look like to how will my mother in law deal with picking up the things he used to do, like mowing the lawn? Wishing you all the best and sending strength and courage your way.


dc, this is a lovely neutral colour. Congratulations also on your recent additions, they are a great complement to your collection. You really know what works for you!

Thank you and so glad to see you back.

 

[dcooney4]

Pretty bag. That must be bigger than it looks to have a drop for shoulder carry. I was thinking it was arm carry. What is the size?

The color is storm grey. It is about 12 1/2" high by 12" wide with a ten inch strap drop. I wore it yesterday to pick up 7 paintings at a galley ,but I strolled all around a cute town first and it was very comfy. The clean lines make it easy to work with my wardrobe. Hence it is my version of a work bag or shopping bag.

 

[dcooney4]

Today, I am going to a friends for a bbq and I won't be wearing a real bag. I received a free floral tote with my makeup and I am going to use it as a pool bag and later to sit at the BBQ with all the people and their largish dogs. This way if something happens to it I could careless.

 

[catsinthebag]

Hi pocket friends I am returning to this thread after a month long break from TPF. Great to read and catch up on what I missed.


Awesome bag, a gorgeous add to your collection ksuromax.


I am sorry to hear about you mom’s stroke and even more sorry to hear about her antics towards your son. Sending hugs and courage your way.


I like this shade of green, it looks fabulous on you dc!


Wishing you a speedy recovery catsinthebag. I had pneumonia in April, it was awful, and I’ve had pink eye in the past, not fun. I empathize with you on the respiratory bug and pink eye at the same time! I hope you feel better soon and I can’t wait to see your reveal!


Congratulations again on the new partnership role! Your vacation pics are lovely. Your latest bags are divine, great additions to your collection. Congrats on Purse peace.


lynne_ross, I’m sorry to hear about your father’s health issue. Sending hugs your way. I can empathize with the emotional roller coaster you are on. My father in law was hospitalized two days before we were due to fly out of country for Christmas vacation. We went through all of the fear of will he make it, to once he stabilized, what does post hospital care look like to how will my mother in law deal with picking up the things he used to do, like mowing the lawn? Wishing you all the best and sending strength and courage your way.


dc, this is a lovely neutral colour. Congratulations also on your recent additions, they are a great complement to your collection. You really know what works for you!

Welcome back! Did it feel weird to be off tPF for that long? I’ve gone into “lurk and like” mode, but would miss the eye candy too much to take a complete break!

 

[Miss_Dawn]

My rose garden is blooming

 

[Miss_Dawn]

@lynne_ross sorry to hear about your father’s health, I hope he recovers fully soon.

@More bags welcome back

 

[lynne_ross]

My rose garden is blooming

Wow so beautiful!

 

[ElainePG]

My rose garden is blooming

Gorgeous roses!

 

[More bags]

Thank you and so glad to see you back.

Thanks for your kind words dc!

Today, I am going to a friends for a bbq and I won't be wearing a real bag. I received a free floral tote with my makeup and I am going to use it as a pool bag and later to sit at the BBQ with all the people and their largish dogs. This way if something happens to it I could careless.

Great idea! This way you can relax and enjoy visiting without having to worry about anything precious getting knocked over. Spring is finally emerging here - we had a lot of rain. Enjoy the bbq and relaxing by the pool.

Welcome back! Did it feel weird to be off tPF for that long? I’ve gone into “lurk and like” mode, but would miss the eye candy too much to take a complete break!

Thanks catsinthebag. Yes, it did feel a little weird, at first. I got my eye candy fix from some blogs, YouTube videos and Instagram. I felt like I was spending a lot of time on TPF and thinking about my bags. It was good to take a break. I will try to find if I can stick to a better sense of moderation. I may have to resort to “lurk and like” later! You can’t beat the knowledge that is available on TPF and I missed the community and conversation from this thread. I chose to go through May with no challenges and just carry what I reached for and not worry about rotating everything or styling less used bags. That was an insightful exercise and I am still learning. Another good thing - I identified more SLGs to rehome and clothing and accessories to remove from my closet.

My rose garden is blooming

Absolutely beautiful Miss_Dawn! You must be getting a lot more sun and heat where you live. We are just now enjoying a week of warmer temperatures. I can only imagine the wonderful fragrances coming from your roses - enjoy and thanks for sharing your pics!

@lynne_ross sorry to hear about your father’s health, I hope he recovers fully soon.

@More bags welcome back

Thanks so much, Miss_Dawn.

 

[dcooney4]

My rose garden is blooming

Stunning flowers!

 

[msd_bags]

Welcome back! Did it feel weird to be off tPF for that long? I’ve gone into “lurk and like” mode, but would miss the eye candy too much to take a complete break!

Sometimes I am into lurk and like mode too because of busy schedule. But I do really try to post since I miss the conversations here. And after a while of hectic schedule, I miss bag talk!

My rose garden is blooming

Lovely!!

 

[catsinthebag]

My rose garden is blooming

Your rose garden is beautiful! I love roses and wish I could grow them, but our tiny yard is too shady.